5 Secrets to Oxytocin Bonding in Anxious Avoidant Relationships
192K views · Apr 9, 2025 · Education
Comments · 541
@Heatherchris33 · 10 months ago
They pretend nothing happened, while one is dying and the other is trying to forget lol Yes
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@AlphagirlMae · 1 year ago
it's too exhausting. Did all this. After 30 years of marriage trying - it becomes a chore. He hated scalp massage and hates anyone touching his scalp. I love scalp massage. He hated holding hands. Hugs... for get it. <br>I want to avoid meeting these types
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@VernonAfter60 · 1 year ago
I’ve been in an anxious-avoidant relationship for years, and learning these bonding secrets really hits home. The struggle is real, but awareness helps so much.
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@michaelaozuka5179 · 1 year ago
If there is true love, both partners will try their best to make it work❤
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@frankG335 · 6 months ago
These videos are the best prevention for getting involved with an avoidant in the first place.
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@aishwaryasuryavanshi4720 · 1 year ago (edited)
after listening to these strategies, I have lost my interest in my avoidant ex. I guess it's a WIN-WIN situation.
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@MD.orion1 · 1 year ago
No physical closeness, no oxytosin, no real relationship
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@tatianaferreira5998 · 3 months ago
I'm an avoidant woman dating an anxious man. Now that feelings are starting to flow my instinct is to pull away. The advantage is, I'm aware of this so it's easier to navigate, but it's still difficult and sometimes exhausting to go against my nature.<br>When I pull away he gets really clingy and emotionally demanding and that makes me pull away even more. But I'm trying my best to correct this because I care about him.
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@justice4all977 · 1 year ago
The problem is..with avoidance attachment, most get their "fix" for dopamine thru porn which just absolutely destroys any hope for a lasting monogamous relationship. There is no way a person can truly connect with their partner if images of all the porn they've seen is playing back in their mind
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@fionamubanga8627 · 1 year ago
As an anxiously attached person, i feel sad that our emotional needs may never be met and we can freely express our feelings.
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@NaimaG12 · 1 year ago
This made me cry. But for all the right reasons.
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@denisemay3996 · 1 year ago
I am tired of relationships that require so much work! Ugh!
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