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What Makes an Avoidant Man Feel Safe Enough to Stay

31K views · Jul 11, 2025 · People & Blogs

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  • @iwishyouknewpodcast · 1 year ago · pinned

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  • @sonasalami · 11 months ago

    Taurine, L-glycine, magnesium glycinate, L-theanine, ashwaganda. 2h before bedtime

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  • @terimccoy6037 · 1 year ago

    I love when he says he feels color now 😃

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  • @Tita-n1z · 1 year ago

    I used to be an avoid at for many yrs. &nbsp; I ran away from every relationship as soon as it got close I was gone. &nbsp; It’s something I could not control. &nbsp; &nbsp;I guess time made me realize my destructive behavior

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  • @500iq6foot8 · 1 year ago

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  • @TheIfekiisha · 1 year ago

    Wow! Kimmy has GROWN<br>Dang!!! God bless you Mr Adam<br>Lives are changing for real and this is what we call divine assignment in the Christian community.<br><br>Love love love this shift for Kimmy!

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  • @DebbiePare · 1 year ago

    Thank you for everything. I’ve been listening to you for a year and a half and following your principles and my boyfriend and my avoidant boyfriend came back and said he wanted to reconcile and he’s acting like a new man for several months now I can see the changes…. I know it’s partly because of the way I handled him over the past year and a half because of you. Your work is saving many hearts thank you.! I’m continuing to learn❤

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  • @cindyperron3024 · 4 months ago

    Kimi, thanks for doing the work to clearly articulate that 3-ring circus going on in your head and heart. &nbsp;You&apos;ve succeeded at taming those tigers and bears that were stealing your peace and emotional success. &nbsp;Bravo!

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  • @Sunny-ry3un · 1 year ago

    The thing about there is always a problem women have made me smile. What most men don’t understand is that sometimes we don’t need a solution, even if it doesn’t make sense. Just listen, let the feelings be and be there with closeness is the solution, it goes both ways.Thank you both for sharing, feel always loved.

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  • @TupacCats · 1 year ago

    Happy for you kimmy the ex avoidant 🎉👏👏👏 kimmy please keep working with Adam so you can continue to lean secure 🙏

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  • @Tnc874 · 8 months ago

    You give me the commitment and ill give you the patience. Period &nbsp;yes i understand the importance of me being secure as much as i can be as a woman who has emotions and spiritual connection to our creator. Ill do my best and speak up for myself not only in words but actions also!

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  • @agapeadams9275 · 2 months ago

    Wow. Listening to this was amazing and very encouraging to me in how a guy can change by being loved and also willing to do the self-awareness work.

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