Anxious Attachment: Check These 5 Blindspots If You're Feeling Unfulfilled In Your Relationships

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• JE

  @JenelleBella · 1 year ago

  The anxious attachment trap: “closeness is about sameness”.<br>The truth: “closeness is about observing each other’s differences, creating a dynamic contrast and learning from each other”.

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• TY

  @tyler6god · 1 year ago

  The moment we&apos;ve all been waiting for

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• AN

  @AnHourOfWolves · 1 year ago

  The silver lining for people with the fearful-avoidant attachment style is that they can use all of these blind-spot videos! 🔥

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• KR

  @krista7088 · 1 year ago

  I visualize my inner child too, but I don&apos;t tell them they are perfect. I tell them they are imperfect actually, but that imperfection is great - that&apos;s what makes them unique and interesting and awesome. I do this because my inner child doesn&apos;t need to think that I/we are perfect; they just need to be reminded that we&apos;re okay.

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• RE

  @redblueiris · 1 year ago

  Wow back to back videos from Heidi ...feels like a buffet restaurant, hungry for more but all of my plates are full

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• JA

  @Jam-m7m · 1 year ago (edited)

  Thank you. &nbsp;Heidi Priebe ❤. &nbsp;I’m 70 years old and I’ve been working on myself with EFT Tapping, &nbsp;Journaling, &nbsp;Shadow work. &nbsp;Dianetics, &nbsp;for 20 years or more. &nbsp;I still notice that when I’m dysregulated and I’m fawning and need to look at why and what trauma from my past. &nbsp;I need to process in healing my past. &nbsp;❤😊

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• RE

  @rehumanizeXX · 1 year ago

  1:54 Am I engaging in a lot of people-pleasing behaviors because i think it will make my relationship better?<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DenwDgrrbU&amp;t=379">6:19</a> In an argument, am I trying to compromise or something else?<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DenwDgrrbU&amp;t=634">10:34</a> Is my life revolving around this relationship? <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DenwDgrrbU&amp;t=815">13:35</a> Am I exercising enough self-protection to allow my partner to have off-days?<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DenwDgrrbU&amp;t=1089">18:09</a> Am I choosing partners who are genuinely emotionally available?

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• SA

  @sanjeevgig8918 · 1 year ago

  1. Over-analyzing partner&apos;s behavior: Constantly questioning and interpreting every action of your partner.<br>2. Neglecting self-care: Focusing too much on the relationship and neglecting your own needs and well-being.<br>3. Fear of abandonment: Allowing the fear of being left to dominate your thoughts and actions.<br>4. Difficulty setting boundaries: Struggling to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in the relationship.<br>5. Seeking constant reassurance: Frequently needing validation and assurance from your partner.

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• KE

  @KerriEverlasting · 1 year ago

  This video makes me anxious 😂❤

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• YI

  @yippierb · 1 year ago

  Man!! Where were you with this stuff 40 years ago!! I know, I&apos;ve been married damn near as long as you&apos;ve been alive. Haha. Would have saved me a lot of grief. Thanks for the education.

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• AL

  @alisiaknoll · 1 year ago

  One thing I would love to know is where the line of &quot;I&apos;m allowing them to be human&quot; turns into &quot;I&apos;m allowing them to abuse me and speak to me disrespectfully&quot;? &nbsp;I feel like your answer is going to be to hold true to your boundaries and leave the premises when it becomes abuse? &nbsp;It&apos;s just that there&apos;s this weird line where some people will agree it&apos;s abuse while others see it as someone being a human. I&apos;d really like more clarity about the difference as someone healing from gaslighting wounds and abuse.

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• TA

  @Taratreehugger · 1 year ago (edited)

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DenwDgrrbU&amp;t=982">16:22</a> First, I get panicked and try to see reassurance. Then I get angry. Then I get scared that I am making a mistake staying with this person. <br><br>Does anyone else have that third problem? &nbsp;I think that’s more of a fearful avoidant thing. It certainly makes things harder. It’s hard to accept that my partner is an imperfect person and be patient because I’m hypervigilant about being too much of a doormat and wasting my life in an unhealthy relationship.

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