Why KNOWLEDGE Doesn’t Stop Us From Repeating Mistakes (But Safety & Stability Does)
26K views · Sep 29, 2026 · People & Blogs
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@A.TORY.A · 21 hours ago
I’m making myself listen to this video four times in a row while I clean my house. I’m tired and dragging ass but this video explains what I need so so well and I need to hear this more than once. More than twice. 4! Thank you so much for this video🎉
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@ValhallaToadplant · 9 hours ago
Recently heard the quote "It's easier to act yourself into new ways of thinking than to think yourself into new ways of acting" -- keep meaning to look up who said it - but it's been a super useful mantra lately
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@elietheprof5678 · 4 hours ago
I try to say “I’m not in a regulated enough state to deal with this right now” but the people around me just say “*stop making excuses!*”
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@Son_of_Sevenless_9 · 23 hours ago
Me watching this after yet again committing to far too many social engagements, work tasks and going on one million dates a week. <br><br>I feel like it is so difficult for my body to accept that I need to be in my window of tolerance when I spent almost every living moment of my life not even knowing I had one. My brain just wants to do some exposuremaxxing and get fully healed in 2 weeks. And very unsurprisingly it doesn't work haha.
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@Jilluminum · 13 hours ago (edited)
This is a great reminder to me in this moment to have some patience with others for not listening to my advice when I try to describe the changes I've made to how I navigate the world.<br><br>It took me a long time to change my approach to life to something healthier and I forget that the people I'm talking to might not be in a place where their bodily system is physically capable of acting on or even accepting that advice yet. Great video thanks!
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@tanya-was-here · 19 hours ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rtSCBj57jw&t=1284">21:24</a> OMG I have an incredibly long history of putting myself in incredibly unsafe conditions both emotionally and literally... Even as a 49 year old mother and a grandmother I was still doing that. I'm 52 now and I may be coming close to living within my window of tolerance partially thanks to listening to you for the last few years ❤️❤️❤️
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@Zekearus53 · 8 hours ago
I have gotten a lot of clarity from someone telling me, “it is impossible to make a mistake.” Everything is leading us to where we are meant to be right now
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@besosinfinitos · 1 day ago
Straight BARS as usual from Heidi
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@edwardcote2440 · 11 hours ago (edited)
That's an excellent point in itself- how are we going to heal if we are still in a situation that is still hurting us? <br>Stop trying to walk on a broken leg.
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@comeelian · 23 hours ago
Going through a breakup right now and navigating between guilt/regret and shame. This feels very timely. Thank you as always Heidi
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@dealarconf · 1 day ago
Heidi, thank you for all the good you do to this world ❤
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