Psychologist Explains What Secure Partners Do When They See Things Differently
5.3K views · Sep 18, 2026 · Education
Comments · 6
@MilesIncognito · 13 days ago
1000% agree with the problem. I find this very hard to do while remaining authentic, because I do not relate to others feelings easily.<br>It's probably one of the things that makes my second marriage work - we have similar views & reactions so most of the time I actually DO relate to concerns she raises. This is maybe an aspect of compatibility people should think about.
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@BlueBerrySorbet-k1p · 13 days ago
My last partner had OCD, and this was a constant issue in our relationship.
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@strangerrose538 · 1 day ago
V useful - thanks ❤
@karensmith1052 · 13 days ago
Great video! This is good advice for everyone, actually. I
@CalicoCooperFan · 12 days ago
I forget where i read it, but a good question to ask if there is a differrence in perspectives or interpretations of the same situation is, "What have you experienced or what do you know that has caused you to see it this way?"<br><br>If the other person answers it appropriately, it can increase your understanding of where they are coming from and why they see things differrently from you.<br><br>We all have blind spots. One of the advantages in life to having a life partner is that they may have greater awareness of things that you arent attuned to and vice versa. You both benefit from those differrences in attunement.
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