This Most ATTRACTIVE Thing A Man Can Do - it’s not what you think

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• BL

  @Blugrazz · 3 months ago

  Divorced, 7 years alone, & after 3 weeks of dating again, I finally know that I don’t need a woman to want me, & I don’t need to be chosen anymore. I actually like me, & I choose me. I’m on my own team. That’s my joy & purpose, building me.❤

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• ER

  @ernestbamburg329 · 3 months ago

  When you realize your peace of mind is more important.

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• MI

  @migueltello4874 · 3 months ago

  60 here , never married, dated and had relationships but never let myself be manipulated. Never really needed someone to be happy.

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• TH

  @TheDWZemke · 3 months ago

  Great video.<br>Widower in my 50&apos;s. <br><br>Know thy self. ( More importantly heal yourself first)<br><br>I restarted dating two years ago. Dating over 20 first dates before I became really comfortable.<br><br>The ability to say no, is paramount!

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• LA

  @laraann202 · 2 months ago

  All of these things don&apos;t feel gender-specific. I&apos;ve been in a &quot;shrinking&quot; relationship for about 17 years. That, coupled with childhood trauma, &nbsp;trickled out into every space of my life. Ever since I hit my own &quot;rock bottom&quot; a few months ago and started regularly going to therapy, I am noticing almost all of these traits coming up in me as I learn to put myself first.

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• JE

  @JerryTheVeganRockstar · 3 months ago (edited)

  This video was your best in my opinion. I’m a 67 year old man that’s very secure in myself, but always open for improvement. Thank you

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• PO

  @Polosebastian14 · 3 months ago

  For me it&apos;s economising energy. Work gym and reading take up too much precious time.

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• TU

  @tucksullivan7639 · 3 months ago

  Very well stated. I believe what you are describing is a &quot;Sigma &quot; male personality. It is a very empowering state; though usually born out of suffering and hard life lessons.

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• CH

  @chuzeychuze9905 · 3 months ago

  I used to be that person, but 12 months ago something happened between myself and a good friend that i was in the early stages of getting to know. I knew the moment I made a comment to her that I&apos;d made a huge mistake and it hit me like a punch in the face just how bad what I&apos;d said was and how much i was trapped in a delusion created by my ego. <br>It was that moment I started to better myself and spoke with a therapist to break down why I kept repeating the same cycles over and over again. It took time but now I resonate very strongly with what you have said in this video. I&apos;m still healing from my past but now I&apos;m a calm and confident man again.

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• RI

  @RichardWillem-y4b · 2 weeks ago (edited)

  Thank you for this video. As you mentioned the example of laughing at jokes that are not really funny to me, this made me think. I think groupsettings like birthdaypartys or bachelorpartys are difficult to be truly yourself when you are a introverted person. Mostly there is the loud one in the room who sets the pace and expects you to be like this person, and thinks more quiet people are not having fun. More than once I got the question why I was so quiet, as I actually was not more quiet than normal. Just not as loud as the extraverted person. As I became more selfaware, I just did’nt care about these types of comments anymore. &nbsp;<br><br>Also the difference between being needed or having the love is a difficult, but really important distuingish. As you can sometimes being drawn into a situation by a person you care about things can become unclear because of the emotional impact. I think journaling helps to clear the mind very well and to set direction for yourself. Talking to people as well, but you have to be aware the people you talk to are true listeners and don’t want to steer you into a direction they think is good for you.

• CA

  @cardiackidjones2848 · 2 months ago

  65 and single.<br>Thank you so much, you❤❤ have described my past perfectly! Trying to be for someone else, changed my schedule, trying to be accepted etc. <br>I have &quot;came home to myself&quot; now, I count, as others do at the same time, but I am NOT exhausted chasing &quot;their acceptance&quot; of me.

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• KA

  @KaBoNegro-0308 · 3 months ago

  watching from Tokyo japan 🇯🇵.. thanks for the video

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