How To Know When Attraction Is Mutual
171K views · May 11, 2026 · Education
Comments · 251
@themanftheworld8439 · 4 months ago
There is so much unrequited love around.
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@LeJimster · 3 months ago
In my experience you can have mutual attraction but it doesn't mean anything will come of it. And that hurts way more than unrequited love tbh. Knowing somebody is mutually attracted and has feelings but not prepared to meet you half way.
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@パウリ-g5z · 4 months ago
You can kinda.. See it.<br>They light up and almost glow when you go to them.<br>It's hard to explain.
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@IvyLuna2 · 4 months ago
I feel the attraction and everything you’ve mentioned but the situation is complicated and makes me doubt there is attraction yet I feel it in my gut.
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@celestelivinglife · 4 months ago
I would love to feel this again. It's been a really long time. Since my ex and I met over 20 years ago. I've been single going on 4 years. I've felt attraction since then but it doesn't last. I miss that feeling. My heart hurts a bit typing that...
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@dulanidesilva9206 · 4 months ago (edited)
I don't initiate the signs, but I still was and I still am attracted to that person...
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@FeliSigagu · 4 months ago (edited)
There is someone I feel drawn to at church. I have caught him gazing at me then he would look away. If he is not at church, I feel a bit disappointed. I feel excited when I see him 😂
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@Nightdreaux22647 · 3 months ago
I actually experienced this long time ago. It's hard to describe and honestly kinda bizzare.
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@MvsG18 · 3 months ago
For anyone saying you see it. Just kind of. We always had beautiful moments but they all died there, a year on, i confessed and we were both feeling the same. We had the loveliest night ever. Sometimes you just HAVE TO SAY IT.
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@rebkamengiste · 2 months ago
Me: making sure my gut feeling is correct watching my boyfriend and our friend has some kind of attraction. 😊 i know its there ... when it happens infront of u its like a punch on the stomach everytime.
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@Goldcoast_4215 · 3 months ago
Don’t do that, don’t give me hope.
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@noomwai76 · 3 months ago
Whether or not it's mutual, the outcome is the same. I treat outbreaks of 'the feels' like a dose of flu. I withdraw, isolate and practise self care until my brain resets and I feel like myself again. I will reply to messages and be social and friendly if we meet, but I won't call first or make any moves at all. Ever. The game is not for me.
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