15 Signs Attraction Is Mutual (But Neither Of You Is Saying Anything)

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  @predictmyfuture · 2 months ago

  Mutual attraction is exciting, but the best relationships begin when both people feel comfortable being honest about their feelings instead of leaving everything to guesswork.

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  @lucerorodriguez6842 · 3 months ago

  Realizing i was delusional about a crush. 😆  i was initiating all the conversations and any topics and hed just respond but not ask me new questions or curiosity about my life. I know stuff about him and he doesnt ask me anything. So im just gunna get over him. Lol

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  @chewher4171 · 3 months ago

  I'm just glad she isn't AI.

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  @Chet_24 · 1 month ago

  I had a woman who just told me she liked me one time when i was in college. That was nice. We've been married for 12 years now.

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  @lnetz77 · 2 months ago

  Mutual attraction is a pattern not a sign alone<br><br>1. You keep convo going despite the goodbye<br>2. Mirroring happens without realization between both<br>3. Eye contact has rhythm not just duration (intensity, more mirroring for oxytocin, a second convo)<br>4. You both remember little details bout each other care and follow up<br>5. Silences don’t feel awkward they’re comfortable <br>6. They both find small excuses to close the distance <br>7. Light teasing with warmth comfort playful it’s a light form of intimacy <br>8. You both become better versions of yourselves (more capable interesting funny who you are or Alice)<br>9. Body points at you even when talking to someone else <br>10. There’s something different to how they say your name (weight before and after use, more than needed but both of you.<br>11. You both get slightly nervous at the same moments ( because when it’s not mutual, one person stays nervous but when it’s mutual, they’re both nervous and somehow it calm each other down so it’s a nervous calm they regulate each other phew)<br>12. The follow up comes without prompting (unprompted contact) reciprocal tho<br>13. They reference the future with you in it. When someone casually references of future with you, without making a formal plan Their brain is putting you in the context of you in their life going forward.<br>14. There’s a specific energy between you two when in the same room as other people it’s called relational attunement. It’s harder to do in a group. So you know you’re attracted to each other when it’s both happening between y’all around others.<br>15. Something shifts right before you part ways &nbsp;the goodbye is longer than it should be it gets slightly more intentional. The conversations slows down just before it ends. Someone says something And there’s a beat where both of you hold it just for a second. This is one of the most instinctual of all the signs and it’s one of the hardest ones to fake. It happens when someone has bonded to the other person and the other feels the same. Even if it’s regular words, both of you linger both of you turn back. Both of you take just a bit longer than the situation requires because. Because you’re nervous systems are doing what they do when they found something real and they don’t wanna let it go yet.<br><br>I took notes so that I could save these for my phone as I am in my early 30s is getting back out there in the dating field after devastating heartbreak. It’s helping me understand the situation with someone I really care about too. Thank you for all the helpful information.

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  @sophiez8894 · 2 months ago

  this is feeding into my delusions guys...

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  @the_key_x · 2 months ago

  I hung out with a guy for two months straight, every night, ALL of these signs going back and forth, he’d initiate every meet up, even saying my name a certain way, AND a teasing nickname for me. I fell HARD and &nbsp;confessed my feelings. He friend zoned me. I made the choice not to stay friends. I felt so stupid. And now any guy would need to hire a plane and sky write “I’M INTO YOU.” I won’t ever read anything into anything, anymore. Lol.

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  @melgm002 · 3 months ago

  I all of a sudden can&apos;t speak properly in his presence and more clumsy

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  @rubyabullaise5465 · 3 months ago

  I have a panic attack whenever our eyes met

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• DA

  @Daimo83 · 2 months ago

  You forgot one: falling over or being clumsy. Can&apos;t fake looking stupid in front of somebody you want to impress!

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• RA

  @raymondc9513 · 7 days ago

  If someone likes you, trust me...<br><br><br><br>you won&apos;t know

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  @ThisIsMyFullName · 3 months ago

  There can be a lot of reasons for body language attraction, but real connection is about showing up, it&apos;s about reaching out because you want to talk with each other. People can show attraction because their nervous system is looking for comfort, but as soon as the need for comfort disappears, the connection also vanishes.

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