Destroy the Narcissist in Court: Divorce, Custody, and Aftermath
169K views · Dec 17, 2020 · People & Blogs
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@saw727 · 3 years ago
i didn't want to destroy him, but he has always wanted to destroy me.
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@dennelllancaster3047 · 3 years ago
What I can not comprehend is why, if our society is awake, only a portion of the attorneys, counselors, social workers, clinical psychologists, and judges are awake. Why do narcissists have the ability to wreak havoc in the justice systems? The non-narcissistic parent should be awarded custody of the child because he or she has already undergone stress, psychological abuse, and emotional and mental abuse at the hands of the narcissist. Enough is sufficient. What a narcissist does to an individual's life ought to be a crime.
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@lisakeppel7054 · 4 years ago
Drive the narcissist to distraction…..tell me more. Distraction really works on them. It’s a blind spot
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@wcbibb · 3 years ago
The imago is the false self projected by the narcissist. Attacking the false image in court creates extreme discomfort for the narcissist.
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@Jp777-n6h · 1 year ago
What does it profit a man that he should gain the whole world but lose his own soul.
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@Fusco77 · 2 years ago (edited)
I did this all on my own without legal counsel or representation. I left him sitting there in disbelief on my way out as I won again! His final words to the judge and I were “she still loves me and she’s never respected me”. The judge and I looked at each other thinking what a crazy person. Then I walked out saying thank you to the Judge.<br><br>I’ve told him time and time again he will never ever take me down and he does not seem to believe me. I’m empowered and he’s now going bat shot crazy around our town. Feel sorry for him tbh
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@MsEm-xr8ns · 5 years ago
I did this with the assistance of a brilliant barrister. It took 3 years & took a huge emotional toll on my children, my family and myself. My ex dragged us all through every perceived transgression , every piece of dirty laundry was aired, real or fabricated. He lied incessantly , delayed court hearings due to feigned illnesses, had his new supply testify against me , It was horrific and not once was the word Narcissist every mentioned. This was 1997-2000. Divorcing a Narcissist put me off the concept of marriage for life.
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@avathemis9878 · 4 years ago
I cannot get away. Every time I save up any money I am forced to spend it defending myself in court.<br><br>He lies far better than I tell the truth.
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@noracanshoot · 4 years ago
You are fucking BRILLIANT!
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@cazza7034 · 1 year ago
My narc husband didn’t want anything to do with our children in our divorce.
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@FIZZO18373 · 4 years ago (edited)
Pure evil individuals who will play with your emotions and feelings , They will tell you crazy , paranoid even with prof they won’t accept their mistakes and still blaming and acting like a victim .Trying to divorce a narcissist who has literally has cause me a lot traumas and damage .
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@shbs-ec8ij · 3 years ago
my marriage is all of this. Disturbing. Terrifyingly accurate. To hear is one thing, to LIVE it is quite another.
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