Top Dating Mistakes Gay Men Make – A Gay Therapy Center Interview with Dating Coach Trevor Kuhn

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• NA

  @nalanl · 1 year ago

  I have given up on dating... I've never regretted investing in myself.

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• MA

  @MarkSummers-g2n · 1 year ago

  Hook Ups are not Dates!

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• JO

  @JoyceMonroe-y1k · 10 months ago

  Amazing video. I'm in such deep pain right now, lost in the sweet memories of our time together. Every moment we shared fills my heart, and all  I long for is her return even though I'm not sure how to make that happen.

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• JU

  @justinpetersen77 · 1 year ago

  I love the honesty of this conversation and it tracks with a lot of my experience.

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• MA

  @marcathens2951 · 1 year ago

  People should accept you as you are. You shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone.  Beauty fades for everyone. A good heart is forever. I've been single 10 years now and am content. I do what I want. No stress or drama.

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• LJ

  @ljrockstar69 · 1 year ago

  It's hard, I think focus on appearance in the gay community for men is ingrained into the culture, it will never go away. I've moved away from that toxic environment because some men can be cruel when it comes to appearances and the expectations/bar is set high. I'm more into healthy mental well-being now and being more focused on other areas of attraction. From my experience, it takes only one toxic relationship with a narcissist to ruin your self worth and it may lead to a long recovery of trauma bonding if you are not careful of identifying the red flag early on the relationship, especially if that partner is obsessed with looks.

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• DA

  @dave1956 · 1 year ago

  As a man nearly 70 years old, this is quite out of touch with reality. <br>At my age men are rarely “hot”. True there must be a physical attraction but there is so much more to selecting a good partner than physical attraction.

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• TH

  @TheBitterOldQueenNYC · 1 year ago

  I&apos;m so glad I locked down my man 42+ years ago when he was 38 and I was 18. &nbsp;Everyone said it wouldn&apos;t work, and it hasn&apos;t all been rainbows and unicorns, but we&apos;re still in love and probably more so than ever before. &nbsp;Guys need to realize people age. &nbsp;In my profile I have a playlist devoted to our 20 year old cat, Leo, and when I look at how we&apos;ve aged it is a little hard to take, but that reality. &nbsp;Near the end of the playlist is a picture of me and my partner back in the summer of 1983. &nbsp;God we were hot back then! &nbsp;I find so many men, gay and straight have arrested development syndrome just by looking at what surrounds them in their videos. &nbsp;Nothing turns me off more than a guys with a collection of worthless toys or crap behind them. &nbsp;I spent my money on college tuition and not junk or tattoos.

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• PA

  @PaulFrondarina-ce9jr · 11 months ago

  We have such a long way to go still

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• FR

  @frankochoa7515 · 4 months ago

  I wish I could have found this podcast 25 years ago! &nbsp;Hahaha. I’ve been with my husband for 23 years and this is very true. &nbsp;In our case sexual roles changed and opened up as we grew in the relationship. &nbsp;Desires changed and letting walls down and being fully comfortable. &nbsp;❤

• JO

  @JoshAragon · 1 year ago

  First find one sane gay man to date

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• WI

  @Will-nr5ow · 6 months ago

  Thanks fort your insight ...you are awesome.