5 Truths About Dating SomeoneWith BPD

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• HI

  @highlander3131 · 3 years ago (edited)

  Living with a DPD person is "doing the same thing repeatedly, and expecting different results is the definition of insanity,"

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• LA

  @lakelvp · 3 years ago

  I've been in relationships with two bpd women. The splitting and extreme devaluation, hateful attacks and gaslighting drove me to a deep depression. I suspect i am drawn to them because I'm seeking to recreate/heal from my own childhood trauma. I also suspect bpd is diagnosed more in women than men because many men with bpd probably commit suicide or end up in prison rather than seeking or getting help.

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• MA

  @mathews0618 · 2 years ago

  5 things<br><br>1. Leave<br>2. Leave<br>3. Leave<br>4. Leave<br>5. They lied, cheated, manipulated and used you. Leave

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• GA

  @gary9026 · 3 years ago (edited)

  I think after 6 months of watching videos on BPD, this is the one that describes the relationship with my ex pwBPD the best.<br>No rage or suicidal ideation, but idealization and devaluation, engulfment and abandonment, impulsivity was there. Dumping me 24 hours after I plan a weekend away over a misunderstanding, blaming my communication &quot;style&quot; as the sole cause of problems. Every time we had a micro-breakup, she would be dating some random guy within a day or two. Spent months trying to show I wouldn&apos;t abandon her. Finally caught her Tindering while we were together. Utter shitshow.

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• YT

  @ytuser13082011 · 3 years ago

  I would probably be able to cope with my now ex wife&apos;s instability, but I couldn&apos;t get over cheating, so first time I discovered it, I just dumped her and threw her out from my house. This is just absolutely unacceptable. I don&apos;t care about your problems if you cheat on me. I can help you if you&apos;re loyal, but what is the purpose of relationship with cheating? I despise such people.

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• JA

  @jasonforsyth2157 · 2 years ago

  I have been plagued by people with BPD my whole life. &nbsp;If you think you want to help one of them, try bringing a lion home and living with it for a while.

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• CH

  @christopherlittle9096 · 3 years ago

  I&apos;m lost trying to figure my wife out. I finally had to get away from her. I love what she is 50% of the time but lord the other. This video is really close to my wife. I actually had to leave because she frustrated me enough one night that I started screaming at her and called her a narcissistic lying C word. That&apos;s when I knew I had to go

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• IP

  @Ipetam · 3 years ago

  BPD, for me, is like having two of me in my brain. The emotional me, and the logical me. They can talk for the most part. But sometimes, its like theres a glass wall between them. They can see eachother but not communicate. <br>The wolf vs angel entity is really a good description too.<br>Thank you for making these videos, i never want to be this kind of girlfriend to somebody.

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• MI

  @Mike-G503 · 3 years ago

  For the last two years I dated my ex. It has been the craziest roller coaster I’ve e er been on. She was my best friend. She was perfect in every way. In every way other than the nonstop rage and everything else you talk about. This is a horrible illness.

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• JR

  @jroberts7387 · 2 years ago (edited)

  Been with my gf for almost three years and I&apos;m about 99% sure she has BPD. The most soul sucking relationship with another human being i&apos;ve ever had. I&apos;ve bent over backwards for her and nothing is ever good enough. &nbsp;One day I&apos;m being told Im her person and she&apos;s never loved anybody as much as me then the next day i&apos;m getting told I never really wanted her and all I do is tell her horrible things. I never know what&apos;s going to set her off so there&apos;s always tension in the air. Her ability to make a mountain out of a molehill is staggering.<br>It&apos;s honestly hard to know what to do because when things are good, they really are good. She&apos;s so incredibly loving

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• MI

  @mickeygklug · 3 years ago

  I recently got out of a 15 year relationship with a borderline that included marriage and two beautiful kids. At the start, BPD wasn’t even on my radar screen. Now I feel like an expert. There were days and nights that I felt had aged me years. It’s amazing how resilient the human psyche can actually be.

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• MY

  @mystorymenzi7726 · 1 year ago

  They are so charismatic in the beginning…. And if you do too much too early for them you’re in for hell. The clingy is crazy , the push and pull is nuts

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