Is She Borderline or Psychopath? (Here's How to Tell)
38K views · Mar 16, 2026 · People & Blogs
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@Ted-NJ · 6 months ago
"Before you heal someone, ask them if they are willing to give up the things that make them sick." -- Hippocrates
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@JonathanLomax-f5z · 6 months ago
I experienced this with my ex-wife she laughed at my pain
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@casperinsight3524 · 6 months ago
Empathy doesn't erase abuse
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@casperinsight3524 · 6 months ago (edited)
Borderline and anti social personality disorder traits can overlap 👀<br>It is a high risk pattern of reckless behaviour, exploitation, emotional storms, deception, and intimidation.
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@pnwlady · 6 months ago (edited)
I had a friend for 20 years who I thought was borderline but after she stole the second time as a bookkeeper (without personal accountability) I realized she also ticked a big psychopath box: lying, cheating and stealing in multiple arenas of life. <br><br>I had more sympathy for her when I thought she was a hurt person, hurting others but after 20+ years, I see she’s without any morals or ethics. No matter how much I love aspects of her, the blaring truth is impossible to unsee.
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@DeeHoney666 · 6 months ago
As a person who had been a "best friend" to a woman with BPD, do not waste your time. Just go no contact unless you want your life to fall apart in every possible way especially if you are romantically involved...
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@svadhisthana8867 · 6 months ago
People with BPD who are abusive don't stop being abusive. Their shame has no effect on their behavior.
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@russell3155 · 3 months ago
The BPD lady in my life headbutted the wall screaming at me telling me she hates me because I asked her if everything is ok because she was a little quiet !!!!
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@humble76 · 6 months ago
I understend why peoples back then use to sleep in separated room and keep distance in their relations
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@damo9961 · 6 months ago
Sam Vaknin says borderline are secondary psychopaths
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@monieboo · 2 months ago
Feel deeply , love deeply , suffer deeply opposite from a psychopath or a monster.
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@zeommed · 6 months ago
Bottom line, don't stick around on either case, either is bpd, or psychopathy or comorbidity of both, just run for the hills and don't turn back, no point on finding out really, I did and lost 14 years of my life and tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. You've been warned.
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