how smart women handle jealous friends

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  @dawnb532 · 8 months ago

  A subtle trait of jealous people that I've noticed is when they ask for advice a lot but never take it. They see you doing better, want the formula but lack the motivation and discipline themselves to follow through.

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• NE

  @nessie1321 · 4 months ago

  I leave in elegant silence.  A jealous envious person is no friend but an enemy.

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• ES

  @esther3etoiles · 8 months ago

  Smart women don’t have jealous friends, bc they don’t consider jealous people as friends. Let’s start here.

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• SE

  @seblifewish5973 · 8 months ago

  ❤️ "A real friend is gonna tell you to shoot for the stars and they're gonna be WITH YOU, in your spaceship, when you get there!" 🦄

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• MR

  @MrRiseAgain · 8 months ago

  The scary part is how jealousy hides behind support and smiles. The moment you realize distance is a strategy not drama, your whole social life levels up. Awareness really is power. 🔥

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• SA

  @sade9425 · 8 months ago

  I’ve learned to never take jealousy/envy lightly or something to work around/manage. They are dangerous emotions that can lead to death. Vandalism, gang stalking, nails in tires, vehicle damage, slander, reputation assassination.  Before, I’d pity “friends” that had those feelings towards me and would try and boost their self esteem and be kinder to show I’m not a threat. That made them more bold and resentful. Now, the moment I recognize those feelings towards me from any person I distance myself.

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• JA

  @jazr7997 · 8 months ago (edited)

  I recently cut off a jealous hateful friend who would disguise disrespect as a “joke”. She’s done it for so long now that I cut her cold turkey. Bye

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• ID

  @idiNTIFY_AI · 8 months ago

  If I find out someone's jealous of me, I drop them or I avoid them at all costs.

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• BU

  @bumblebee_ms · 8 months ago

  My favourite phrase is: "Jealous people will chew you, then spit you out when they don't need you anymore". So fitting.

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• RO

  @robotcat7821 · 8 months ago

  I handle it by cutting them off. I don’t do jealous friends with the weird animosity.

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• RO

  @rottingapplz · 8 months ago (edited)

  Something I notice as well is that they are also high key Possessive, like when I hangout with other friends or living my life, every time they message where are you? Or who are you with? It’s a little odd.

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• SI

  @Sicilianbabie · 8 months ago

  I just remove myself from these type of friendships.

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