if you’ve never been in a relationship, watch this (2025)

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• HR

  @hradst · 1 year ago · pinned

  “If you ask bad questions you’ll get bad answers. If you ask good you’ll get good answers” <br><br>Cold

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• EL

  @Elizabeth-ss5ts · 1 year ago

  I think people need to normalize the fact that being single is not a disease. Its okay and if the right person who ticks out boxes comes along, we appreciate it.

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• BD

  @bdontcr · 1 year ago

  Reading the comments and realizing that never having been in a relationship in your late 20s is actually more common than I thought is pretty calming

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• AL

  @alphalance9408 · 1 year ago

  &quot;Don&apos;t waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come.&quot;

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• YO

  @You_w9 · 6 months ago

  27, and I’ve never been in relationship. No situationships, no “almosts”, no one ever really choosing me like that. <br>Sometimes I wonder if I’m missing out, or if something’s wrong with me. But other times I remind myself maybe I’ve been saving my time, my energy and my heart for something real.<br>Still figuring it out. Still growing. Still here.

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• CU

  @Curious_enigma · 1 year ago (edited)

  I think my YouTube feed thinks I’m single, my YouTube feed is right (edited months later: I actually am in an amazing relationship rn, so this comment is no longer accurte😂)

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• RY

  @ryeofoatmeal · 1 year ago

  calling someone who never been into relationships as worst kisser, worst in bed etc etc are so mean ☹️ how would you know that?? you could&apos;ve the best as first time too

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• NE

  @nezukochan2033 · 1 year ago

  Lately, I’ve noticed that people act like being single is some kind of flaw or a sin. I&apos;m 23, and most of my friends are in relationships. They keep telling me I should start dating now ,like there&apos;s some kind of expiration date on finding love.<br><br>They assume I&apos;m lonely just because I’m not with someone, and they even suggest I shouldn’t tell my future partner that I’ve never dated before because this would make me seem less desirable or that something must be wrong with me. <br><br>I’ll date when I feel ready, when I meet someone I truly connect with ,not because of pressure or fear of being &quot;too late.&quot;

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• AG

  @agquad · 1 year ago

  I think we, as a society, need to devalue the importance of romance and normalize singleness. Not only is romance not for everyone, but even if you want a romantic relationship, there is absolutely no guarantee that you will ever get one! No one owes anyone a romance, and I think accepting that romances aren&apos;t inherently superior or more important than platonic friendships would help a lot of people with their insecurities about not having a partner. You can foster a platonic relationship to be just as emotionally intimate as any romantic one, and I believe more people need to start doing this and valuing friendships over romances.

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• AS

  @ashureg1354 · 1 year ago

  Got into a relationship after watching this video. And im not kidding. My first one and im in my late 20s. Wish me luck.

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• MA

  @maroonlipgloss_ · 1 year ago

  my grandmother&apos;s sister wasnt married her whole life. She died at 83 never even had a boyfriend, she was the happiest, coolest, kindest person id ever seen

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• CA

  @cassideyhayes5498 · 1 year ago

  I hate the idea that our society created that there is a timeframe for when you should have had your first kiss, relationship, sex, etc. but also the idea that there is a right or wrong way to love someone or be romantic with someone. I was so scared when I had my first relationship because I felt I was doing it wrong or could be, but then I remembered that every relationship is going to be different because everyone is different.

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