Don’t Let Wounds of Neglect Trample Any Possibility of Love

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• IA

  @IamStreber · 2 years ago · pinned

  I love the pure honesty on this channel.  It keeps me honest and feeling of connection with others even though I don’t know any of you.  Thank you all for being here.❤️

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• TH

  @thomaswaffle5121 · 2 years ago

  I don't even need sex. I just want real friendships and more of a spiritual connection.

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• BU

  @buddyneher9359 · 2 years ago (edited)

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-RncQYnW-s&amp;t=1340">22:20</a> &quot;Regulation is not a tool to shut yourself down like a drug&quot; - another one for the wall plaque!

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• CH

  @christinelamb1167 · 2 years ago

  &quot;Dating is not the same thing as sexual entanglement&quot;,<br>&quot;that&apos;s what dating is, to find out how this (person) makes me feel&quot;, <br>These are the precious nuggets I got from this video!

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• TA

  @tammygallagher976 · 2 years ago

  Self regulation is being true to who I am is a new thought for me.

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• SH

  @sharon5259 · 2 years ago

  &quot;You cannot honour, protect and heal yourself until you actually can feel yourself, and you quit lying about what that is so somebody won&apos;t leave you...&quot; 🙌

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• AQ

  @aquariusstar7248 · 2 years ago (edited)

  Having a heart that wants true love and etting involved with someone who only wants to be casual is a guaranteed casualty.

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• TA

  @tammygallagher976 · 2 years ago

  Moving slow with relationships is smart. &nbsp;Before allowing a man to be into your body be sure he deserves you please.

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• JJ

  @Jjggiio · 2 years ago

  I gasped as well when she said she invited herself!!! Girl!!!! No!!!

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• MA

  @margaretc5679 · 2 years ago

  I&apos;ve been Nora. Hang in there. You&apos;ll find your way. ❤

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• DE

  @deez4evs · 2 years ago (edited)

  My goodness. I did this very same thing a few months ago. Including inviting myself over his house and labeling him as avoidant. The shame and embarrassment are real. And the more time that passes, I realize that he was really doing his best to be nice and polite. Yes, he should have established a boundary, but i can’t blame him for not knowing what to do. Especially since there likely was <b>**some**</b> interest but i likely quickly shut that down with my intensity. It also just kind of.. unfolded but my trauma totally blinded me. It felt like my eyes weee wide open but they def were not. Ugh. I feel Nora’s pain. The following weeks sucked mentally. It will pass. And let it be a lesson learned. Im not totally sure if I am healed enough to not do this again but hopefully it will never be that bad. Good luck to nora ❤

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• FL

  @flower_7890 · 2 years ago

  We&apos;ve all done that, I&apos;m guilty of a needy and creepy behaviour as well 😬 but now I know better, &nbsp;I&apos;ve learnt &nbsp;from my mistake and I won&apos;t do it again in the future for sure. It&apos;s really hard to see how we behave when we&apos;re driven by trauma, &nbsp;we do stupid, creepy, unattractive things to get what we want/ need...but once we realise that&apos;s inappropriate we can change that unhealthy pattern 😊

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