Stand Up For What Your Soul Knows You Need (4-Video Compilation)

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• CR

  @CrappyChildhoodFairy · 1 year ago · pinned

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• NI

  @NikkiEdmunds · 1 year ago

  Getting married will not make things any better, David. If anything, it’s going to exacerbate things. If she is treating you like this now, she will treat you worse than you can ever imagine if you marry her. The mere fact that she’s not sensitive to how you feel about this male friend of hers is a bad sign. Stay if you choose to but don’t think that it’s going to be any better if you decide to marry her. Good luck dear.

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• TW

  @twrhello · 1 year ago

  It sucks coming to this realization but some people have a boundary that they don’t actually want monogamy, they just like the outward appearance of it. My ex was that way, he verbally said one thing, but his boundary really was to be able to go off and cheat and I had to be okay with it. It’s unhealthy to try to control anyone, even if we believe we are morally in the right. It’s important to allow people their choice or else we end up becoming abusive, and I think it’s better to focus on being in relationships that bring the most healthiest parts of you forward, instead of focusing on relationships where you’re trying to bring other people’s most healthiest side forward.

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• LH

  @lhr8833 · 1 year ago

  Who is gonna tell him??? As someone with CPTSD, I’m mortified that this woman is weaponizing childhood trauma to abuse her partner. I think at this point CPTSD is not her only diagnosis.

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• EL

  @elvan5922 · 1 year ago

  She might be in<br>Love with that older guy and the guy does not want a full relationship with her .

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• NI

  @NikkiEdmunds · 1 year ago

  I don’t believe it but at age 48, I still can’t get clear about the exact kind of man that I want in my life I have never been involved in a healthy relationship. I’ve attracted emotionally unavailable men, those who were disrespectful, broke, etc. it’s draining. I must admit that you, Crappy Childhood Fairy has made a very significant impact on me. Your videos are so enlightening. You’re a breath of fresh air, let me tell you know that you’re making a huge impact on the Universe. Blessings.

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• NI

  @NikkiEdmunds · 1 year ago

  Alone or stuck in a bad relationship is my loop. &nbsp;I’m striving to change this but God help me. &nbsp;I loathe being single, yet, my relationships just suck. You’re correct. The break is an opportunity to get some self help and attract a great person. Great video.

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• TH

  @Thewildwell · 1 year ago

  The making him feel self conscious about his size is such a red flag. My bff is a big guy and 6’8. The gentlest and least aggressive man you can imagine. He dated multiple unhealthy and/ or BPD chicks in his 20s and they’d all at some point come at him at some point with some nonsense about how they “didn’t feel safe” because of his size (as if he can change that.) I think it’s a major manipulation tactic some really unhealthy women use against men knowing the “I’m a woman and I don’t feel safe” is a trump card that’s very hard to call out without looking like a jerk / seeming sexist. I think this guy should run. He’s working way too hard to please someone (to the extent of changing things about his physical appearance) who is treating him as an afterthought.

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• SA

  @SandraT1107 · 1 year ago

  Reaching my twilight years here, so interesting to hear these videos. Life doesn&apos;t come with a manual but communication, clear boundaries and love are key, in my experience 😊

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• MA

  @marysiawojcik · 1 year ago

  Ok, Fairy. &nbsp;Your down to earth way of explaining the pain and confusion that arises from CPTSD continues to be a bright light on my path towards healing. Thank you for keeping it real and for being so warm and loving in the process. 💕

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• JO

  @jomoney465 · 1 year ago (edited)

  I don&apos;t know why, but the man that wrote in for advice on how to fix his girlfriend states &quot; I cleaned the house so that she would have more time for herself &quot; . &nbsp; Ok, so are you saying that you did her work for her? to free up her time ? &nbsp;did you consider this a favor that should have been acknowledged ? &nbsp;you cleaned the house.... &nbsp;you live together, right ? &nbsp;so you basically cleaned your house, but saw the effort as a way to show how great you are ? so that she would recognize this and be grateful ? &nbsp; Am I the only one that has zoned in on this comment ? &nbsp;of all the red flags he throws up about the girlfriend, and all the efforts he is describing in exhausting detail, this is the one that I can&apos;t stop thinking about.

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• SU

  @Susan-p9b1u · 1 year ago

  Her keeping that other Guys messages is bad

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