Childhood Trauma, Lost Identity and RAGE

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  @CrappyChildhoodFairy · 2 years ago (edited) · pinned

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• BO

  @bobbyallen4555 · 2 years ago

  My abuse went beyond parents, it was &nbsp;coaches, teachers and principals.

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• LU

  @lulumoon6942 · 2 years ago

  👉And I (UNANNOUNCED) &quot;cut ties&quot; to my toxic family with the support of a great therapist, but I never told them, just was unavailable for MONTHS, and that space was the break I needed to finally begin putting myself first. Eventually I eased back into some contact, but no explanation beyond &quot;busy with school/work&quot; as they were NOT invited into the conversation about my recovery/healing. Hope this helps, Mercy! 🙏

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• TS

  @ts25679 · 2 years ago

  I thought this was going to be about trauma with a lower case t, e.g. emotional neglect, but listening to dear Mercy&apos;s story that’s just pure abuse. Physical, psychological, social and financial. Her family destroyed every place and person she could find solace in. The strength of will it takes to build a life through that is staggering. The strength of character it takes not to take out all that pain on the rest of the world is Herculean. I hope she finds what she needs to nurture that wounded child so she can flourish

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• TE

  @Tenorman51 · 2 years ago

  Mercy, we all love you here. &nbsp;You&apos;re winning, you just don&apos;t know it yet.

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• BR

  @bridgettetraveler658 · 2 years ago

  I pray Mercy finds the love she needs &amp; deserves. I&apos;ve been very little contact with my DNA relatives over 30 years &amp; it&apos;s so freeing. I feel more lonely with my DNA relatives than without them. Freedom is beautiful!!!

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• MI

  @Midlifeanticrisis · 1 year ago

  I’ve been a nurse for 30 years, and I’m in awe of how you are able to function as a nurse with all that you have been through. Bless you. ❤

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• JL

  @jlee1820 · 2 years ago (edited)

  I&apos;m so sorry all of those horrible things happened to you. Be proud of yourself, and how much you&apos;ve accomplished in your life, in spite of all of that has happened to you. You deserved better parents. Period. I send you prayers, love and light 🕯️ Hugs 🤗

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• WR

  @writer1986 · 2 years ago

  Mercy, don&apos;t beat yourself up for the childhood you didn&apos;t get to choose.... I was the family scapegoat. I was treated terribly, even though I was nothing compared to my ill-behaved siblings. I slowly left my family of origin. First by moving abroad, secondly by getting married, and now I&apos;m no-contact with my parents and low-contact with my siblings. And I&apos;m still healing from the all the trauma I had to endure with a highly narcissistic mother, enabling father, and flying monkey siblings. I wish life was easier for me, as a kid, but it wasn&apos;t, so I created it for myself as an adult.... And so can you.

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• SP

  @spendmytime · 1 year ago

  I&apos;m listening to this 6 months after it was posted and really hope you&apos;re still here. All those things that have happened to you are not your fault. You are loved. I don&apos;t know you, or even your real name but I love you x

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• AL

  @allisona9490 · 2 years ago

  We&apos;re cheering you on, Mercy❤️ I&apos;m so sorry you&apos;ve experienced such things.

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• JU

  @Just_ice_forvictims · 2 years ago

  Mercy you’re amazing woman ❤️. Thank you for your courage to share your story. 🤗

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