Narcissists Don't Just Cross Boundaries, They SHATTER Them

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• MA

  @markohart691 · 1 year ago

  Boundaries to a narc are like a red rag to a bull. Silence is golden.

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• BU

  @BunnySnuggle27 · 6 months ago (edited)

  May all who are experiencing this abuse, mistreatment and sickness find the strength and a way to get away and begin their healing 🙏🏼

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• AB

  @abba1459 · 1 year ago

  They have no boundaries.

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• JE

  @jeankipper6954 · 1 year ago

  In my experience narcs behave oblivious to my boundaries.  And act shocked, SHOCKED!, when enforced.  No contact is SO unreasonable!!  Well.  Worked for me.  😊

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• GI

  @GiveItAThink-1018 · 6 months ago

  Narcissistic people are VERY firm in their boundaries. Yet they see your boundaries as ants in their kitchen, a disgusting pestilence that invades their space and requires them to lock, load, and deploy all their weapons.

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• JO

  @jodyayers4592 · 1 year ago

  Something about this that is rarely discussed but NEEDS to be understood. <br>Your not the first person they did this to and your not the only person they are doing it to. They have had A LOT of experience with how people will behave when they do it. They know that the odds are in their favor. <br>You are at a disadvantage simply because you don&apos;t behave this way towards others. And they have been practicing their game for a long time.... <br>Know this....let this be the first thing that comes to mind when it happens. <br>As opposed to the excuse THEY KNOW MOST will come up with to over look it just so things wont get worse. <br>It wasn&apos;t an accident, a mindless mishap, a bad moment they milked all day, a forgetful lapse....they know what they are doing and are gambling on a life time of experience that you TOO.... wont clock them for it. <br>It is this...at work in them <br>Because sentence against an evil deed is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of mankind is fully set in them to do evil.

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• LA

  @latin-x7q · 1 year ago

  My sociopathic mother takes no as a challenge..with manipulation and gaslighting no contact seems to work best

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• JE

  @jesperandersson889 · 1 year ago

  what profound conversation about shallowness :face-purple-wide-eyes::face-purple-wide-eyes::face-purple-wide-eyes:

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• SB

  @SBintHennigan-u2l · 4 months ago

  They cheat lie and steal

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• DO

  @donpiedrabuena8054 · 1 year ago

  I started to say &apos;no&apos; to reiciving favors when I discovered those &apos;favor&apos; were used as coins they could ask back later on.

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• FA

  @farooqabbasi.moviestar · 1 year ago

  Ha ha! You&apos;ve just described my wife down to a T. She asks for these little favors all the time. Get me a glass of water, for example, in the middle of the night. Or, read that message for me. And when I say no, all hell breaks loose.<br><br>Gaslighting, guilt tripping, extreme temper tantrums, silent treatments are all part of her toolbox.<br><br>I am so tired of all this drama.<br><br>I have chest pains from all the unnecessary stress she causes me.

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• EL

  @elizabethlawrence-qj2dz · 1 year ago

  When I took my ex back, I told him if he started ghosting me, two days - even one day, I was not putting up with it. Things were going ok until I told him I needed to go to bed at 9:30 pm on work nights, as I get up at 4:30am and work 12 hour shifts. He literally called me at 9:28 pm on a night before I worked. I didn’t answer. He called again at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVqPJlHeTYM&amp;t=590">9:50</a>, then again at 10:25 pm. I kept my boundary and did not answer. He then ghosted me for 2 days. At that point I ended the relationship. It was so obvious he saw my boundary as a challenge to his control.

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