Thai Women & Money: What's Normal—and What's a Red Flag?
19K views · Sep 18, 2026 · Travel & Events
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@costoflivingabroad · 12 days ago
Never been married but I came close....buddy, you are cracking me up. Great video, as always. They just keep getting better.
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@craigieboi68 · 12 days ago
Hey Mike great video again😊. I’ve dated a couple of girls and it really does vary. I had a gik arrangement with a girl who always wanted to go to Fuji restaurant because she loved Japanese food. We’d order heaps and it would be pricey and she would comment and acknowledge this. <br>But she would pay every 3rd time or so. Because she considered herself an expensive date! <br>Another girl I dated was very frugal and was always concerned if we were paying too much for food. And she sent absolutely everything she could back to her parents. I also visited the village with her and got to see what she had to deal with when she went home. EVERYONE would ask her for money except her parents. She explained they all really had no concept of money and savings, and everyone she knew in the village just saw her as someone to get money from especially once she was dating a farang. She said it was exhausting and difficult because there were so many people that owed her money that she knew she’d never get back and finally she started saying no. And that created its own set of problems. <br>The guys that get scammed that I’ve known it has more likely been driven by the family back in the village and not the girl. As we know, for a Thai girl family will always come first. And that is fair I think. So a lot of the requests for money are an obedient daughter doing what the family wants her to do.
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@petersimmons3346 · 5 days ago
Thanks sound advice 👍
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@HeyJudeCar · 12 days ago
I found my girlfriend in thai love, and this is super helpful as context. In my experience, understanding these nuances helps you appreciate the genuine effort and care without jumping to conclusions.
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@Olle-555 · 13 days ago
Another nice video. I like the format and the flow 😊
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@jonathanpeirce · 13 days ago
Excellent video Mike! Thank you for making it. Have a fun and safe trip up north! Beau
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@HeatsinLive · 13 days ago
Well done sir. Ty:hand-pink-waving:
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@Rwj378 · 12 days ago
Remarkable similarities to yacht ownership. Newer boats cost more, ongoing significant maintenance costs, occasional stormy weather, and a perceived feeling of true love………until she changes hands.
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@HarvestLovee · 12 days ago
Great info! As an Asian woman in the US, I've noticed a real contrast between Western dating norms and my traditional cultural expectations. Back home, generosity is huge, and men or older family members usually grab the bill (or we fight over it!). In the US, splitting bills is way more common. It can definitely be confusing to navigate both worlds!
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@Bigd0gg · 12 days ago (edited)
Excellent overview for cultural and financial norms in Thailand, Asia, and the West- thanks!
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@Steven-vb3ni · 11 days ago
Good advice. Thank you
@mangostickyrice555 · 12 days ago
Thumbs up 👍Mike
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