Why Love Feels So Hard - And How to Finally Feel Safe in Your Relationship
65K views · Nov 26, 2025 · Entertainment
Comments · 58
@anneliesewright662 · 8 months ago
I wish people would stop saying, "The story in your head." That sounds like we're crazy. Our intuition and triggers are often based on past experiences. It's a warning signal that tells us that danger or pain is ahead, because it actually is. If our partner is doing something that's hurtful to us and reminds us of the pain we've already experienced in the past, we better listen to our instincts and triggers because we don't want to go through that pain again. We had to put up with it as a child because we had no choice, but as an adult, we can walk away from someone who is mistreating us. We don't need to be told that it's a story in our head. That's actually gaslighting.
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@Artmaker52 · 9 months ago
Do not underestimate 12 step work.
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@Landslide-m4f · 10 months ago
WORK ON YOURSELF; THERE IS NO OTHER WAY
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@anneflanagan9242 · 10 months ago
Harville Hendrix and his work is Brilliant… He suggests …unless you figure out who you are attracting..you will continue to meet the same person…so to resolve the issue of divorce is.. do your own work…or take a Harville Hendrix work..then we won’t have as much divorce .. And Julian Turecki & Dr. H we are so grateful for as well. Combine all you together…would be the recipe for decreasing Divorce.
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@Punnabhumi · 10 months ago (edited)
Regularly talking about each other's experience on a weekly basis what went well and not so well or having a date night each month, doing random acts of kindness, hugs and appreciation all keep the relationship warm, alive & fresh. Divorce is a misalignment and disconnection in non-verbal and verbal communication.
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@dachater1 · 10 months ago
True suffering comes from feeling totally out of control to change your circumstances!!!!
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@kellybell2746 · 10 months ago
This is an excellent interview and discussion. She’s intuitive and kind and Dr Hyman is insightful, asks good questions and allows her to go deep on her answers. Respect them both
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@emanuelelaconi9501 · 9 months ago
the mind and the body. the healing. the be in touch with your true self..and so on. and yet we are more lonely then ever.
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@devynrusso6626 · 9 months ago
I love that you admitted to not shutting the cabinets! 😂❤🙏🏻
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@lucypinkpermits · 5 months ago
This is a heavy topic. Glad for this discussion.
@luisacrespo2418 · 7 months ago
I tried everything and what I found super helpful is IFS method! !! You work on different parts we all humans have! 💜
@restwlesslifestyle · 8 months ago
thankyou Jillian and Dr Hyman.
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