Why Some People Make You Feel Uneasy Instantly | Chase Hughes & Vanessa Van Edwards

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  @marcthebeginning · 2 months ago · pinned

  When something feels off about a person, do you act on the feeling or wait for proof?

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• AL

  @alwayscarrying · 1 month ago

  In 2003 or 04 I was on a Craigslist date in NYC.  My date was a huge man who gave off the darkest most demonic vibe I've ever felt.  When he went to the restroom, I ran out the back of the restaurant like I was running for my life.  Fast forward 20 years when the Long Island / Gilgo Beach serial killer was arrested.  I took one look and had a complete nervous breakdown.  I firmly believe my date that night was Rex Heuermann.

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• HA

  @Harpe515 · 1 month ago

  Your body is reading their Frequency

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• JU

  @justjudijjb3455 · 1 month ago

  When our daughter was about 3 years old, I was dropping used items off at a Salvation Army drop box. She got out of the car with me and as we walked to the open donation container, a large bald man walked out. His hair was slightly off and as I was able to focus on his face, i immediately got all over body vibes of darkness. He looked at our daughter first and then at me. I put the bags down immediately in the middle of the parking lot. Told her to drop her bag and took her back to the car. I didn’t even buckle her into her car seat. Just locked the doors and drove off. <br>I will never forget the feeling and the terror inside me. I will never forget what he looked like. I felt like I had looked into the eyes of a psychopath! &nbsp;It shook me for the longest time, and I had a couple of nightmares about him. That was 20 years ago and the whole scenario; weather, light, orientation of the drop box, everything is vivid!!

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• PE

  @PersiaBlack · 1 month ago

  My intuition has never ever been wrong

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• DO

  @Douyins_flower · 2 months ago

  most people think overriding your gut means you&apos;re being mature, rational, giving someone the benefit of the doubt. what it actually means is you learned somewhere that trusting yourself was more dangerous than trusting the person making you uneasy. that&apos;s not open-mindedness. that&apos;s a nervous system that got punished for being right before and decided doubt was safer than confidence. my therapist kept bringing up &quot;for those of you who feel invisible&quot; by don rivers until i finally read it and it reframed the whole thing. the discomfort isn&apos;t you being paranoid, it&apos;s data your body collected before your brain finished the sentence. i stopped explaining away that tight feeling in my chest and started just.. leaving the room. situations resolved themselves so much faster once i stopped needing proof first. took me way longer to learn that than it should&apos;ve... wish someone would have told me to read it like 2 years before that lmao

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• ST

  @starshipgraffiti · 2 months ago (edited)

  If you grow up in a family of malignant narcissists then your gut reaction to bad people is warped... unhealthy is normal and they will be drawn to you which normalizes darkness even more. You have to continuously see them as a toxin to be avoided even if that means loneliness... loneliness is the lesser of the two evils.

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• EX

  @exclusive8203 · 3 days ago

  I’d be interested to know how Anwen Reid’s anxiety quiz was created and what the different results are based on. The questions don’t always seem connected on the surface, so there must be some kind of structure behind how the answers are interpreted.

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• MY

  @mysticat7652 · 1 month ago (edited)

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yARiqNO2Ujc&amp;t=297">4:57</a> Step 1 of the Sociopath&apos;s playbook is, &quot;to get anyone who&apos;s in my circle, to associate feeling good with pleasing me.&quot; Boom! 💣That&apos;s it! Right there. Thank you for that simplicity! 🎉

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• OP

  @Optanie · 1 month ago

  Sadly I see the whole government as the PSYCHOPATH

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• JO

  @Joli-d3g3u · 1 month ago

  Okay I never comment on videos but I have to. Everything shes saying lines up with Make Him Your Pet. I bought it on a whim after a bad breakup, and it honestly made me angry that I spent my entire twenties playing nice and getting walked all over.

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• FR

  @FreedomOnTruth · 1 month ago

  A lot of people feel uneasy &nbsp;when someone speaks truthfully .

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