The Psychology of Trust | Anne Böckler-Raettig | TEDxFrankfurt

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  @Halo-li8hg · 6 years ago

  This is why gossip can be so damaging it determines a person's trust immediately true or not.

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• EV

  @everburningblue · 6 years ago

  I wouldn't trust their audio engineer.

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• KI

  @KittyKat-4 · 8 years ago

  I see that trust has been missing in my life.  It feels good to hear about how trust is what is important in relationships and that it is something the can be re-engendered when it is lacking.

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• SC

  @ScoopDogg · 5 years ago (edited)

  I got a job and in the first week my boss heard me saying something about a jacket i wanted, a week later he called me in and gave me a 2nd hand jacket (the one i dreamed about owning) i wanted worth £200 (in 1988s prices) if bought new,....anyway i found a card with a name on an, appointment saying call me fiona and £300 in notes in another pocket.  I gave him it back after 2 days pondering but tempted to keep it. I only earned  37 pound in the 80's on a training  scheme.  Anyway he said he thought he lost it and said thanks, turns out he didn't know about the card his brother gave him but he not read it yet after he slipped it in his pocket and forgot about it, i thought he was testing me, but wasn't lol.  Ends up the card appointment to go see his sister who died the day after he went to see her and he hadn't seen her in 12 years. so wouldn't have known if i hadn't give him it back.   Anyway made 3 people happy, and he trusted me which was a fantastic feeling for me to know and him... If i had spent it, i wouldn't even have a memory to mention   and he wouldn't have made contact with his sister on her death bed... P.S he offered me the money and i said No. he gave it to the cancer charity.. A great man sadly gone now.;  but that feeling i got was worth ten times the coat the money.  Sorry I bored you with this long message lol : /

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• GO

  @GoldhartStudio · 6 years ago

  Trust builds with time and being in different situation with that person.

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• AL

  @alibeaumont-filder3185 · 6 years ago

  Trust , respect and loyalty .. without we have these elements , we have  nothing .... sadly when we do not deliver this .. we can lose people. Thank you for presenting .

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• RE

  @reachingmygoals1652 · 5 years ago

  Trust isnt easy anymore anywhere really. Thats why im aware of trusting people these days. This year i had to cut over 10 people out of my life off of mistrust. I was thinking of not trusting people anymore. But what i do is still make friends but not get too close anymore since i am getting older. I know what its like to deal with mistrust. I only trust my immediate family.

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• MA

  @mart_phoenix · 6 years ago

  No, you cannot trust everyone. <br>We already know, that trust is necessary for relationships, but people need to be careful, too.

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• JA

  @jacknjill3000 · 3 years ago

  I’m 59 and still foolishly trust ppl. Then I find myself getting disappointed in the ppl. I trust. So I go back to being selective and wait for someone I believe I can trust. But again they let me down or seem to not care as much as I thought. Oh and I’m single so I look for friends to fill that void, which I find it’s not that important to others. So bc of my expectations from ppl. I eventually get disappointed bc my need is usually greater than these ppl. I try to trust. I still know and read ppl. but some are good about hiding how truly feel. <br><br>So from my experience, it’s not easy to trust others and others trusting me. With my eagerness to be friends and thinking I show them I value them and making the time for them, it seems to send a different message. So some ppl. may follow the same advice, but still get a different results. I know understand why humans pair up, it’s not easy to even trust one person and here I’m expecting to have a trusting relationship with many.

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• RO

  @Rob337_aka_CancelProof · 3 years ago

  Trust works best when paired with reciprocity as trust and reciprocity combined the basis for all human interactions and they reinforce each other in ways that enable future trust and reciprocity but everybody focuses so much on trust and I don&apos;t think most people realize how important the reciprocity component is because both need to be present for long-term success

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• JA

  @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness · 7 years ago

  This is such an important topic, &nbsp;so glad we are talking about it in detail.

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• DY

  @DynamicLearning4u · 2 years ago

  Soothing voice. I could listen to her all day.

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