The Majority of Avoidant Attachment Styles Come Back If You Do THIS
181K views · May 7, 2024 · Education
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@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool · 2 years ago · pinned
Have you ever used no contact after a breakup? Have you ever confronted stonewalling in a relationship? Let me know what your experience was like! ❤
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@usersss100 · 2 years ago
Attachment theory should be taught in high school. this will save alot of unecessary heartbreaks.
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@alemarja · 2 years ago
guys… do we realise how disgusting this behaviour is? How crazy it is that we yearn for a person who made us feel like they love us and then totally ignore us, shut down and dismiss us? Where in this world is this considered normal. This is sick. It now hits me like a truck. I never in my life want to do a “no contact” shit again, I can’t comprehend how someone claims to love you and then totally shuts down and doesn’t change anything? It makes me sick to the stomach honestly… I can’t believe I fell in love with someone like this… I really thought I found the one.. only for them to be like this. This is so sickening… I hope I can heal from this
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@thegreatlakestrucker · 2 years ago
If someone is avoiding you for a month then you’re not dating. You are wasting your time at that point.
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@foreverlovehijau4428 · 2 years ago
Sometimes, understanding them is so tiring, exhausting.
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@marioct130 · 2 years ago
My experience is that the avoidant will come back, numerous times, but they will leave again.
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@rebeccabrauer9856 · 1 year ago
Fallling for a dismissive avoidant was the worst thing that ever happenenes to me. I even come froma childhood full of trauma and abuse.
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@tball7027 · 1 year ago
Married to a avoidant attachment wife, with her 30 years or more , they will never change run for your lives,it’s so confusing and exhausting,you loose yourself in this turmoil.
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@Jeff-kq9vg · 1 year ago
The upmost twisted thing is, they are damaged and need therapy<br>But the ones who are with them end up in therapy
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@Heavenlysky89 · 2 years ago
I prefer no contact 4ever
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@oOOoOphidian · 2 years ago
Don't bother getting them back if they aren't going to change, they aren't worth it
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@LeeChrissy · 2 years ago (edited)
Update. My point of sharing this is to say that if you leave someone who is avoidant alone they will come back if you feel safe to them and there was an actual connection. It doesn't mean you have to accept if they haven't done the work. <br><br>My ex DA will literally not go away unless he starts seeing someone. He hasn't dated anyone since me and still keeps trying to come in, but not in a way that I need. We've been long-time friends so friendship is cool too. I truly don't think he gets that I no longer worship him like I did when I was unhealed. I have another ex DA who is the same way. I initially get deep in, but my no contact game is unwavering. I don't do it to play games or get anyone back. I accept the reality of the situation and move on. Even if I'm heartbroken I won't reach out. I'd rather keep my dignity intact. If someone really wants me, they'll figure it out.
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