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The One Thing I Did That Saved My Marriage (It Wasn’t Couples Therapy)

4.6K views · Jul 2, 2026 · People & Blogs

Comments · 35

  • @RayHerz1 · 2 months ago

    I have a personal affinity for, or maybe dependence on, Ezekiel's "dry bones" chapter and the "heart of stone being replaced with a heart of flesh" in the preceding chapter. Nice work Dr. Kimberly.

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  • @kellybishop5574 · 2 months ago

    I love your new show and love that you included Bible study!

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  • @PomPomLi · 2 months ago (edited)

    Way to go, Dr. Beam Holmes, Kimberly! ❤ 🎉🎉🎉 PS the set os gorgeous! ❤ those colors!

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  • @Elle_55 · 2 months ago

    Wow I just read 1 Samuel 15 today.. and I said " how is this helping me Lord"

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  • @jonsteider1834 · 2 months ago

    Great format; I like the variety of segments and that you include  a bible study.

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  • @stephaniestodola3040 · 2 months ago

    This was so encouraging and much needed and a God send!!! Also, Marriage Helper is great!! :)

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  • @PomPomLi · 2 months ago

    Feedback: ❤ your cheery attitude, and deep color palette 🎨 of the set. Love 💕 the note from your dad! <br>🌟 Family Encouragement! <br>✊ respect the reality and commitment not necessarily to the status quo but to improving it through improving ourselves ❤ 🎊 🎉

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  • @beautifultruth4777 · 2 months ago

    Congratulations!!🎉 I’ve watched many of marriage helper episodes, and I am happy for you and the new thing!

  • @thomasmiller852 · 2 months ago

    Thanks Dr. Holmes. I personally appreciate the in-depth look at scripture. Daring to do so on your part to venture on this path I do appreciate your courage and conviction.

  • @gideonuzugideon2591 · 2 months ago

    Thank you for this episode ❤. Thank you for yielding to the Lord and being a blessing.

  • @Ab.s_93 · 1 month ago

    My wife and I have been separated for about a month, and she moved out. She’s told me that she needs to focus on her own healing before she can even consider talking about our marriage. Neither of us has brought up divorce, and as far as I know, neither of us wants to go there right now.<br><br>Since the separation, I’ve been working on myself nonstop—really trying to understand my mistakes, my behaviors, my role in the problems we’ve had, and how I can become a better husband and father. I love my wife deeply and want our family back, but I also understand that I can’t pressure her or try to force reconciliation.<br><br>I’m struggling with the uncertainty and wondering what the healthiest thing is for me to do during this time. How do I give her the space she’s asking for while still leaving the door open for our marriage? What should I be focusing on personally, and are there things I should absolutely avoid doing?<br><br>For those who have been through a separation like this and eventually reconciled, what helped you the most? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

  • @PomPomLi · 2 months ago (edited)

    Ahw! Best Dad ever! ❤ 🎉 ❤ So cute 🥰 and fun! 🤩 Love him! 🥰

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