Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD

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Most people are living a version of themselves that they never chose. You've been showing up for your spouse, your kids, and your career…butyou've been doing it on autopilot. You're living within a ceiling built by your past and sustained by your habits. I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended. The Way You Show Up is for the tired go-getter. We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health. If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here. New episodes every Tuesday. Don't just exist. Show up.

33:50

Follow This If Your Spouse Is In An Affair

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 4.7K views · 2 weeks ago

50:26

The One Thing I Did That Saved My Marriage (It Wasn’t Couples Therapy)

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 4.6K views · 3 months ago

41:01

Why You're Not Healing EMOTIONALLY

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.6K views · 1 month ago

38:35

Your Spouse Wants Out... What Do You Do Now?

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.4K views · 8 days ago

1:05:33

3 Steps to Heal a Broken Marriage

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 149K views · 2 years ago

16:08

How Ignoring Time Together Can Destroy Your Marriage

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 2.8K views · 1 year ago

38:32

Stop Trying To Fix Your Marriage Fast

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 4.5K views · 2 months ago

29:55

How Do I Prove To My Spouse That I've Changed?

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.2K views · 1 day ago

52:44

Mastering PIES with Kimberly Beam Holmes | AMA #1

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 4.9K views · 2 years ago

43:13

The 4 Part Framework To Standing For Your Marriage

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 10K views · 1 year ago

51:50

The 5 Step Method To Improving Your Communication

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.9K views · 1 year ago

38:54

How To Become More Attractive INTELLECTUALLY

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.2K views · 1 year ago

21:26

How Attraction Leads To Love

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.4K views · 3 years ago

22:20

Do What You Love Without Sacrificing Who You Love

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.1K views · 1 year ago

11:02

Can An Anxious Wife And Avoidant Husband Reconcile?

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.2K views · 1 month ago

56:07

3 Hidden Triggers Behind Every Argument You Have

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 1.2K views · 2 months ago

26:51

How I Work On My PIES

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 15K views · 3 years ago

36:44

What To Do When You Feel Like A Failure

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 909 views · 2 months ago

38:08

The 4 Part Method That Changes The Way You Show Up

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 3K views · 7 months ago

23:03

When Everything Is NOT Fine

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD · 2K views · 3 months ago

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