Healed Avoidant Explains Why Avoidants Break Their Own Rules When a Super Empath Detaches

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• JO

  @johnrambot · 1 month ago

  Don’t become a super floormat trying to change them years will go by before you know it. Release them to God pray for their heart to soften and their mind to be renewed.

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• AM

  @AmaHardy1990 · 1 month ago

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iw1SvF3-RtY&amp;t=1414">23:34</a> Strength isn’t measured by how little you need people , it’s measured by how honestly you can show up, when they matter ❤

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• TE

  @tedwilson1477 · 3 months ago

  So when you&apos;re in contact with an avoidant, they dont want or value you, when you go no conact, they value you. So the best relationship with an avoidant will be to have a no contact relationship, how is that different from being single? 🤣

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• MI

  @Milka-jvmka · 2 months ago

  Too late, avoidants...<br>You have hurt the super empath to the core

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• KN

  @kngperbs2991 · 12 hours ago

  If you’re a man dealing with an avoidant woman keep your opinions open and keep seeing a talking to other women. The minute you don’t have options you’re cooked because I guarantee you they have options and they use them.

• DR

  @dragjessicas · 1 month ago

  I am a super empath and two years ago I met somebody I am sure they are DA. It has been difficult but I&apos;ve had to finally pull away and they have already tried to test my new boundary by showing a bit of warmth. Oh it was so hard not to take the bait! I didn&apos;t and felt awful at first but at last felt empowered.<br><br>I hope they heal but I think it&apos;s unlikely. I am choosing me.

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• NA

  @NayeliAloraEl-x8u · 3 months ago

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• LI

  @lifeinthestellasphere · 1 month ago

  MY EX. Im soooo over it. Its exhausting.

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• MA

  @mandolinwind · 3 months ago

  I don&apos;t think he has the depth to reflect - truly reflect or ask deep questions...his ego will not allow it. And, if you go no contact? You heal, you try... but then they take that very personal ( even tho they created it)- and they never continue with bread crumbs- not that a person wants breadcrumbs ( i want the full meal)..but when you ignore them, or have low contact..they stop bothering. &nbsp;I think it&apos;s very rare that an avoidant can go really deep...repair and return..if the emotional kind person continues to take them back as if nothing happens, you stay anchored in the loop..ignore them? They&apos;re gone. It&apos;s a losing game. But for the healthy minded lover- get clarity ( painfully) but the empath really is done too...

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• FI

  @FinniF-u4x · 1 month ago

  I&apos;m not a super empath.. I&apos;m just never becomes a people pleaser my whole life and only try to be as genuine as possible i front of my avoidant bf... They can sense genuine acts vs performing acts... As long as you stay true to your own feelings and stay mentally secured with yourself.. That itself will be really attractive to them.

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• KA

  @kathleenpopata9718 · 3 months ago

  This is different seeing males Aloneness. Is it reflection?. Is it avoidance?. Will he reach out for support?.<br>Time Ran Out. &nbsp;Once a S.E. ends the relationship, there&apos;s no come back. Sure there&apos;s &nbsp;history, how ever, seeing no growth. <br>S.E. transformation is Chosen. Self Wholeness Investment &nbsp; ✨🍀🙌.

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• SA

  @salwaawan4755 · 3 months ago

  What if they already in relationship with someone else and they r happy together?