How to find a husband // Season 3 Episode 2 | Honest Tea Talk

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  @desiriemendez · 5 years ago

  This came at just the right time for me. For the past 4 years I was dating a Muslim man in hopes of getting married to him. I was so in love. Prior to this I hadn’t known any Muslim people and he taught me a lot about the faith, I was already dressing modestly and a lot of my values aligned with traditional Muslim values anyway so I planned on taking my shahada soon and becoming a revert to officially marry him. About a month ago I figured out he had a wife and kids back in his home country. I was so devastated. I’ve been so bitter and angry but now I can accept he just wasn’t the right person for me and there is someone else out there who will appreciate me. I don’t know how I’ll find this person but I trust Allah will guide me. Thank you ladies! I have a lot to think about as I go on my journey.

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  @yaseensinsights · 5 years ago

  Hey Beautiful! “You don’t need someone to complete you! You need someone to complement you! “

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• KA

  @karmimran3524 · 5 years ago (edited)

  "Good women are for good men, and good men are for good women"

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• HA

  @hawaconteh7283 · 5 years ago

  A deal breaker for me was what is my future in-laws attitudes towards me? What impression they leave me when we first interact? I didn’t want to marry someone if his parents didn’t even like me. I wanted to be apart of a family that is welcoming. Don’t forget to do istikhara prayer my dear sisters ❤️.

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  @thehealedsister · 5 years ago

  The childhood trauma and healing questions are so so so important. Forget &quot;What&apos;s your favorite color?&quot; and get in deep conversations instead. Be attentive to how the potential spouse behave with their parents, friends, strangers. Notice how they react when they are presented with a problem or resistance. Do they communicate efficiently? Do they close down and give you the silence treatment? Do they pay attention to your opinions, values... <br><br>Emotional intelligence is something I wish I was taught before getting married and I would have looked for in my partner. <br><br>Take your time to ask those questions. Look for actions that show congruency between words and behavior. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

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• MI

  @Miss77-k4r · 5 years ago

  I’m Sikh and 27 and this was nice to watch. I completely agree that don’t wait for a guy to complete you. You complete yourself! Find someone who compliments and understands you. I’m happy on my own and If marriage happens it happens.

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• FA

  @fatmaali4419 · 5 years ago

  &quot;We are in this Dunya to save our souls, your partner needs to feed health into your soul&quot; 🙌🙌💯💯👏👏👏

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• SE

  @sentur3127 · 5 years ago

  By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.” – Socrates

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• AL

  @alishataylor9480 · 5 years ago

  My biggest fear is never getting married because I just don&apos;t know how to go about it. But for now I&apos;m trying to make peace with it but inshallah I will find someone.

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• KA

  @karij8197 · 5 years ago

  “Women can also see” yess Summaya 😂😂😂😂

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• CO

  @Coloringwitfati · 5 years ago

  The best Dua to make for a spouse, at least in my opinion, ask Allah to send you someone that You NEED! What I have learned from my experiences is that many times what we think we want turns out to be things we despise. Only Allah knows you best, so who better to ask than The One who created you. Like they say, be careful what you ask for!

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  @garciapedro7554 · 5 years ago

  I was here thinking “these fine ladies in their 20s are really smart”, then she goes and drops “my 16 years old daughter”, then vampires, these ladies are vampires

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