connecting with people becomes easy once you understand this
128K views · Dec 9, 2025 · Education
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@NewelOfKnowledge · 9 months ago (edited) · pinned
hadn't told a story in a while so wanted to get back to it 🫣 hope you found some things cool in the vid. Share your best questions to ask other people below. 👇⬇ Ly guys.😭🤢🫶
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@Slam_24 · 4 months ago
Thank the heavens there are actually some people on the internet who can teach self-development the right way. The space gets filled with so many incels who don’t rely on the science but are guided by toxic masculinity. You sir, are a gem and the real deal.
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@beccak6101 · 9 months ago
This makes sense that people call me intimidating when I’m very locked in on being my idea of perfect
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@finisheseverythi · 9 months ago
intimacy = "in to me see" - that is how i remember it
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@alexeikazakov4806 · 9 months ago
This reminds me of Alan Watts’ whole thing about the “principle of irreducible rascality”. A too-regimented person would be “like a stew with no salt in it”.
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@maya-dv8lv · 9 months ago
This man just solved years of me self-comparing to my friend about how she just has this flow with people while I can’t simply connect, in only <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEOvcAsGPfU&t=3309">55:09</a> minutes. Amazing
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@KRISHNEGI-w4f3r · 9 months ago
I didn’t expect anything when I picked up Manifest the Divine by Elena River. But wow… it felt like someone finally explained manifestation in a way my brain could accept. Been seeing little blessings pop up everywhere since. ❤
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@dxfifa · 9 months ago
A person with high self control is less warm, less alive and less genuine, because they are masking and making sure they hide their flaws. You need to be low self control with good habits that come naturally (can be trained) to be that guy the high self control people want to be. Impulses are human and high self control people cut parts of themselves off to avoid the habits that cause harm in their opinion. It can get to the point where your impulses are trained by your self control and then you are robotic, inhibited and stuck in a persona
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@stealth720-ALD · 7 months ago
From one regrettably intelligent man to another. My heart goes out to you brother and I feel you more than you may think. Life is fucking brutal and you're the hope to some of these young men out here weather you realize that or not. Your probably changing lives. Not immediately, but surely.
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@Joeyowoah · 9 months ago
Can’t have a renewal of knowledge if you never had it. <b>newel enters the chat</b>
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@kadezessete · 9 months ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEOvcAsGPfU&t=1020">17:00</a><br><br>Oh. So THAT'S why a friend of mine feeled a lot uneasy around me. She created a fake image of me that I'm better than I really am and I failed to create a good connection with her. Makes sense.
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@f.b.6569 · 9 months ago
How in hell can something that serious be this funny!?
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