Cheated On? A Gay Therapist Explains What to Do Next

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• TH

  @Therapy-for-Gay-Men · 7 months ago · pinned

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• MA

  @mark.s.msw00 · 1 year ago

  Validation and Looking Inward are so important!

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• TE

  @tedgop1932 · 1 month ago

  I was dating someone... for almost a year. I thought he was an avoidant... the last time I saw him, we were kissing at his doorstep. The same day he was telling how happy he is to talk with me and hangout with me. <br><br>After that day... he ghosted me. Exactly 1month after that... Facebook posted: he is with another guy, &quot;in a relationship&quot;. <br>I felt a level of betrayal i never experienced before. I was balancing between wrath and sadness.

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• MR

  @MrMADONNACOLLECTOR29-SCORPIO · 3 months ago (edited)

  They chose to cross that line regardless of the circumstances. &nbsp;That is the BIGGEST pill to swallow ... and you will HAVE to chew on that for quite a while.

• DR

  @dr.LuisFelipe-Nuno1311 · 1 year ago

  Amazing Video ! Thank you Michael for sharing this great topic.

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• RI

  @RichiWheeler-g8e · 1 year ago

  My ex left me for someone with my money after 16 yrs with one person only I feel ok I know some generally care more about material than people and that&apos;s ok I&apos;m kinda of glad because why would I want something less than what honors my values. I &nbsp;love grounding

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• JO

  @johnrichards3666 · 1 year ago

  If you can still love a partner who has cheated on you, more power to you. &nbsp;If you decide to move on, then move on. &nbsp;I have &quot;moved on&quot; several times. &nbsp;Being single with good friends, a solid career and stability is better than a second rate relationship with a cheating schmuck.

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• LJ

  @ljrockstar69 · 1 year ago

  I&apos;m more vigilant because of traumatic experience with a narcissist, so I don&apos;t let my guard down now. I now look for red flags, constantly.

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• BO

  @bonginkosityabazeka1746 · 11 months ago

  Thank you for this. I am currently going through this.my now ex boyfriend was cheating on me and everyone around him knew. I just realized I was also gaslighted when I eventually found out. I still feel like I am the one who did someone thing even though he is the one who cheated.it feels like I&apos;m the one left with guilt. I hate this feeling. But thank you for this video cos I have friends so I needed advice like this. I guess I was also an easy &nbsp;target...

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• OH

  @Oh_Hell_No_6969 · 1 year ago

  I’ve always attracted the Red Flags, and ignore it. &nbsp;Not anymore! &nbsp;You truly have to know your self worth! &nbsp;That way, you don’t look past those red flags!

• LO

  @lordrefrigeratorintercoole288 · 11 months ago

  all my relations ended becouse my partner cheated on me.<br>im so sick and tiered of it, i stoped dating since 2019 and im never dating again.<br>im just happy i didnt get any STD from them. Cant say the same for them, most of them got the big one.

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• RE

  @Recornfh4 · 2 months ago

  My boyfriend and I have known each other for one year and then he can cheat on me I really don&apos;t understand what I did wrong, because of me. His ex friend showed me that he was in that dating app jackd, Tell him about it he&apos;s saying it&apos;s old and I overreact things or something in my head, I don&apos;t want to lose him it&apos;s really hard to lose a person like Love feels like. I always feel like the bad guy here. When I front him about it he acts like nothing never happened. I really wish someone who is gay like me can help like What did I do wrong am I boring him and my not doing a better job I really don&apos;t understand. I know that man can&apos;t cry but I&apos;ve been trying a lot. Like this wants me to be straight