When an Avoidant Finally Faces You After Long Silence — This Happen Every Single Time | Chase Hughes
12K views · Jul 1, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 38
@cherylmekarski1059 · 2 months ago
For me, it worked. In a relationship for 5 years. Then I said No More. 7 weeks of silence and he came back. Apologized. And then said We should only get back together if we think this will lead to marriage. Can you see yourself married to me? I said yes. We have had a wonderful 44 year marriage.
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@KyleCamp-u7i · 2 months ago
I don't neither anger nor desparation, silence is my protection.
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@deroforever · 1 month ago
As they have been shamed as children for their needs, so they try to shame you for your reaction to their neglect. They are emotionally neglected children who never grew.. 😢😢😢
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@miar.4507 · 2 months ago
Yup, 7 months after the discard, he texted me just like you said. 😮😮
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@saralawrence335 · 2 months ago
"micro smiles or asymmetric smirks". Could this be the Duchenne smile?
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@deroforever · 2 months ago
I think I am also an avoidant because I don't mind at all when he disappears for weeks 😊
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@deroforever · 1 month ago (edited)
I was lucky he told me after 4 years he needs a long break and maybe travel instead of disappearing without a word like he did many times before..
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@AK-pr9nk · 1 month ago
Sometimes I too avoid my avoidant ...
@js0807joan1 · 1 month ago
If they decide to speak with me, I’ll be myself and say hi, but I don’t care about anything that has been going on in their lives. And I certainly wouldn’t give them any information on mine. <br>That’s what they are curious about. Not because they care, but because they pray their crap ended me.
@mariawatsula · 2 months ago
It was a good learning experience. Will keep the lessons in mind. <br>I trust we will have a happy ending together.
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@amyshomesteadanimals · 1 month ago
Wow, avoidants spund fun. 😒They COULD just have a deep conversation occasionally and life is good, but their ego is too ginormous!
@reechimz4602 · 12 days ago
When my avoidant ex wife called me after 7 yrs i told her she was right (she wasn't) to break off our marriage so that she could have peace in her mind, move on and not initiate another conversation.
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