46 Phrases That Upset Autistic Brains
323K views · Sep 6, 2024 · People & Blogs
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@jakstrak · 2 years ago · pinned
Timestamps for you Tay. Thanks for this vid - I feel sooooo not alone!<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=151">2:31</a> <br>1. Tell me a little bit about yourself.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=183">3:03</a> <br>2. Can you give me an example?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=220">3:40</a> <br>3. Because I said so!<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=237">3:57</a> <br>4. That's just how it is.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=250">4:10</a> <br>5. What have you been up to?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=270">4:30</a> <br>6. Don't worry about it.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=310">5:10</a> <br>7. Brave is on a scale of 1 to 10<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=338">5:38</a> <br>8. Do you see the big picture or focus on the small details?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=361">6:01</a> <br>9. Fake it till you make it.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=381">6:21</a> <br>10. How's it goin' / What's up?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=404">6:44</a> <br>11. Absolute expressions such as always or never.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=435">7:15</a> <br>12. We should get together sometime.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=457">7:37</a><br>13. Where do you see yourself in five years?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=474">7:54</a> <br>14. What is the book you're reading about / what was the movie about?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=497">8:17</a><br>15. You'll just know.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=501">8:21</a><br>16. You'll figure it out by yourself / it's pretty self explanatory.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=540">9:00</a> <br>17. What's your favourite.....anything?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=558">9:18</a><br>18. I'm so proud of you.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=588">9:48</a><br>19. What do you want to do / eat / want?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=670">11:10</a><br>20. You're awfully quiet.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=686">11:26</a><br>21. Happy Birthday.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=703">11:43</a><br>22. Just do it.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=749">12:29</a><br>23. Inspired by true events / based on a true story.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=766">12:46</a><br>24. Smile!<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=795">13:15</a><br>25. How would you evaluate your performance?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=823">13:43</a><br>26. We're in town, can we stop by?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=838">13:58</a><br>27. Would you listen?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=856">14:16</a><br>28. How was your week / weekend?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=887">14:47</a><br>29. What's new?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=894">14:54</a><br>30. Why are you doing it that way?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=924">15:24</a><br>31. Are you excited?!<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=939">15:39</a><br>32. How's this weather huh?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=947">15:47</a><br>33. Would you rather....?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=956">15:56</a><br>34. What are you thinking about?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=995">16:35</a><br>35. No pain, no gain.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1022">17:02</a><br>36. Neurospicy.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1042">17:22</a><br>37. A touch of the 'tism.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1053">17:33</a><br>38. Idioms / play it by ear.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1089">18:09</a><br>39. Don't be so dramatic / you're too sensitive.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1119">18:39</a><br>40. Everyone is a little autistic.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1127">18:47</a><br>41. Have you tried meditation?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1179">19:39</a><br>42. How can I help you?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1194">19:54</a><br>43. Just a little longer / it'll only take a second.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1205">20:05</a><br>44. Swearing / cursing.<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1229">20:29</a><br>45. Why can't you act normal?<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcEBijacyqY&t=1235">20:35</a><br>46. How are you?
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@KeritechElectronics · 2 years ago
"We need to talk." or any unscheduled or unpredictable meetings.
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@EC-Lynn · 2 years ago
“What are you thinking?” My favorite answer is a line from Married With Children: “If I wanted everyone to know I’d be talking instead of thinking.”
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@GaledVersailles · 2 years ago
“You’re a survivor. “ It makes me feel like something that washed up on the beach .
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@SunshineAndThrashMetal · 2 months ago
"Don't worry about it." Now that is <b>all</b> I'm going to do.
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@cashannam7632 · 2 years ago
"You need to go out more and make friends". Socialising is the most stressful and exhausting thing for me and I am not myself, but act for the public in the way I think is expected.
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@rgfdg4y46 · 2 years ago
I always loved Mitch Hedberg's response to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" question. "Celebrating the 5th anniversary of you asking me this question"
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@DizzyLizzys · 2 years ago
“Just be yourself.”<br>But…I don’t know who that is.
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@spazzwad · 1 year ago
“Don’t worry about it” drives me bonkers! I notice important details that allistics do not. If I bring them up to an allistic person and they respond “don’t worry about it”, I now not only STILL need to know if it’s a problem but I ALSO need to know if WE have a problem where you are being dismissive of my legitimate concern or if you actually know more than me so now I have to handle your emotions and mine while I try not to freak out, become disregulated, or drop my mask. <br>It’s dropping a huge amount of mental and emotional weight on me that’s the literal opposite of not worrying about it.
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@alexainie · 2 years ago
"I'll drop by sometime tomorrow."<br><br>Seriously, eff all the way off basically you've doomed me to a whole day obsessing over what that means (today) and an unknown percentage of tomorrow obsessing over what it means WHILE staring at the front door and hearing every, tiny sound in existence because now, without permission, my ears are listening for you. <br><br>The WORST.
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@erikd4690 · 2 years ago
My Dad went to the doctor, and the doctor asked him about his pain level by saying, "Pain?" My Dad said, "No thanks." It's one of my favorite things my Dad ever did.
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@alexvyse4295 · 2 years ago
“You’re overthinking this.” 💔💔💔
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