4 CRUCIAL things to REMEMBER when dealing with narcissists

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• JO

  @jodycasey6936 · 2 years ago

  “Do not insult a crocodile while your feet are still in the water.”<br>Brilliant.

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• LI

  @LibraryBP2 · 2 years ago

  Four things to remember regarding narcissists. 1) They don&apos;t care 2) They only love themselves 3)They will rage &nbsp;4)They are skilled at lying Those four things keep you from being duped forever.

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• GN

  @GNIrene7 · 2 years ago

  &quot;Never fight with a pig. You&apos;ll both get muddy and the pig will love it!&quot; 🙂

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• NA

  @NarcSurvivor · 2 years ago

  Remember that you are dealing with someone who is completely self-absorbed and lacks empathy for you. It’s all about them. Their triumphs, their misfortunes, but never their flaws, faults or mistakes. Everything is always your fault. They are opportunists and they are only concerned with gaining an advantage over you.

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• DO

  @dottyp137 · 2 years ago

  It’s sad when you have to run away from your own family to protect yourself. I think we grow up thinking there’s something wrong with us and then we come across people who are confirming what we have been told all our lives. &nbsp;So there’s massive confusion internally. <br>There is a saying, ‘God is always talking to you and if you can’t hear him he’ll talk louder’ that was my life. <br>I have met some really good people in my life, but the abusers got worse and worse until I understood. <br>It’s over now, half a lifetime to hear it 😢😌

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• SA

  @sandralopez951 · 2 years ago

  Wish this info was so readily available in the 80’s.

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• LE

  @leeforbes7301 · 2 years ago

  I also joined the military to get away from my mother. &nbsp;The military life was much easier to deal with than my life with mom!! &nbsp;😢😢😢

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• CA

  @carsonlogan1969 · 2 years ago

  My time to get out is quickly approaching after almost a year of learning, planning, and saving. &nbsp;The time is almost here, and I am excited, but I am also terrified! &nbsp;The unknown is scary. &nbsp;The hell I know is still the hell I know. &nbsp;I won&apos;t let it stop me. &nbsp;I pray for strength and to continue to follow the blessed path God has set before me. &nbsp;Stay strong and keep going, your day to get away will come!

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• ST

  @StacyAB · 2 years ago

  I feel like Dr. Ramani is one of my best friends and we’ve never met.

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• KI

  @kirstencorcoran · 2 years ago

  &quot;A conversation with a narcissist will always go wrong, if it goes on long enough.&quot; So true.

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• KA

  @KatKennedy-sq9zq · 2 years ago

  The rage from a narc when it is fully evolved is absolutely horrific. &nbsp;My narc brother literally said these words to me: “When someone pisses me off or does something to me I don’t like, I wait until I can get revenge. &nbsp;I will wait as long as it takes and then kick them where it counts.” He also said: “I can eviscerate someone with my words, totally rip them apart.” He was proud of these things, even told us a few ways he did this. &nbsp;I knew then (if I didn’t know before), that I was absolutely not exempt from this. &nbsp;To hear him say these things and be proud of it? &nbsp;How dysfunctional and toxic to live with that type of intention in your heart. &nbsp;I saw him then: 100%. &nbsp;When push came to shove and I did something he perceived as harming him: this is what came out at me. &nbsp;NC was the only way forward. &nbsp;I could no longer contend with that type of toxicity.

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• WI

  @wildhorses6817 · 2 years ago

  I was physically assaulted in my older years by ex, police seemed to side with him. He was quiet and calm while I was sobbing and terrorized. The charges I filed were Dropped. &nbsp;Judicial system is a major Failure. Now I know I am not protected by the Law.

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