4 Things that SABOTAGE your healing from a narcissistic relationship

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• YU

  @yukio_saito · 2 years ago (edited)

  The more you forgive them, the more and more they repeat the same thing.

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• JA

  @janeene24 · 2 years ago

  I left after 20 years. My only regret is that I didn’t leave sooner. Never been happier and the thought of someone getting the best version of him never even crossed my mind. I couldn’t care less.

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• CO

  @connie9492 · 2 years ago

  MY REGRET IS ALSO THAT I SPENT TOO MUCH TIME TRYING. I WAS WILLING TO INVEST AND TRY WHEN IT WAS MISERABLE!

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• BE

  @BemaSeatAcademy · 2 years ago

  Carpet of eggshells<br>Repository of cruelty<br><br>You are a Shakespeare too, Doc. &nbsp;I love you.

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• RE

  @ReRe_642 · 2 years ago (edited)

  That’s the worst is loosing 30 years of my life. Passed up great men for this.

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• MI

  @mickeyblue7 · 2 years ago

  Dr Ramani you helped me so much. 2 years ago I found your videos and realised what I&apos;d been through for the last 37 years. <br>I &apos;ve been separated from my covert narcissist husband for 2 and half years now. Have my own lovely house, lots of friends and a good life.<br>Divorce completed through yesterday. I never want to see him again. I&apos;m sorry I had children with him.<br>Luckily I&apos;m not against men and have met some wonderfully nice men.<br>From the bottom of my heart, thank you Dr Ramani. You gave me a new life to live

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• LU

  @lucyjones9678 · 1 year ago

  I don’t want to change someone. I just don’t want abuse

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• MI

  @MichaelBroder · 2 years ago

  There’s a level on which I am grateful for my now defunct relationship because it really forced me to confront my history of trauma bonding and to become more aware of the role I play in selling myself out in these relationships and maybe at the ripe old age of 63 I am finally in a position to stop doing it again and again and again.

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• DE

  @denisemegenhardt282 · 2 years ago

  The best thing that I have found is not to talk to them after leaving because it will make you fall back into the trap. You can not change anyone but, yourself! 🙏🙏🙏

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• CH

  @cherrybacon3319 · 2 years ago

  It will take the rest of my life, however long that is, to recover and heal from my abuse as it changed me at my core and i have had to learn who i am again. 🍒

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• SU

  @suzyhomeacre · 2 years ago (edited)

  Not only are you “hip,” you’re wildly intelligent, completely approachable, &amp; are improving millions of lives.<br>I’d say that’s pretty dang cool. 🫶🏻

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• LO

  @lorimiller7261 · 2 years ago

  They will not change leave and get off the crazy train. Don’t give them anymore of your precious life ❤

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