Be Careful Who You Call “Friend”

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  @mistyjordan7147 · 2 years ago

  Your narcissistic friend was trying to make your friends, her friends, so she can turn your friends against you.

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• TH

  @TheAlkebulanTrust · 3 years ago

  Real talk there are friends and then there are associates. As one gets into adulthood it's not like childhood where everyone you see you want to play with and be friends. Some adults can be very vindictive and demonic

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  @LouisaWatt · 3 years ago

  I’ve learned over the years to see the signs of a “friend” who is trying to rush intimacy and bond with me super fast. It actually gives me anxiety now rather than feeling validating. <br>Those people 100% every time, cause drama and do the MOST to use and abuse. <br>It’s a “hell no” from me.

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• SU

  @sunsetfirecat · 3 years ago

  Insecure women are unfortunately never good friends. No matter how much they might try or think they are. I wish more women understood the importance of building their own confidence, for so many reasons, themselves, relationships with men, friendships, etc but some people don’t want to grow out of toxic mentalities and you can’t do that for them. And you’re correct that having older women in your corner makes me feel very blessed. I would say my ‘core’ is my mum and her best friend. All of my other friends are people who have truly beautiful characters, even if we only share 1 or 2 things in common.

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• NI

  @nikigracevlogs · 3 years ago

  This is why I wouldn’t want to connect with an “old friend”. If we don’t talk today, there’s probably a reason for it 👀 …it’s fine that people change but I’m just not interested!

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• GI

  @gingerhoney4031 · 3 years ago

  I sometimes feel like making new friends. Then, I take a nap and get over it.

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• JE

  @jerellfulton8561 · 3 years ago

  Yes people can be jealous of you because you have nice things that’s absolutely true if you have a nice house if you have a nice car, a partner who loves you, if you have family that love you people can be jealous of that, also they can be jealous of you because you have a good attitude about yourself, a good relationship with yourself, if you are confident in yourself and have good things going for you. People can envy you for many things it’s not just materialistic!

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• YO

  @yogyal292 · 3 years ago (edited)

  One thing I learned about “friendship” &nbsp;<br><br>1. If a girl look at me up and down <br>2. tryna look like me. Buying same stuff. I will run!<br>3. If she talks with friends of mine or start following people that I know maybe on social media. Run! <br>4. If she’s is not opened like me <br>5. Never trynna listen to what I have to say just telling story’s about herself <br>6. When she don’t like u for getting more attention from others specially guys<br>7. If she only talk more with dudes. Big red flag 🚩 <br>8. If I warn you about a guy and even defend you from people who talk shit behind yo back and u still messing with them.. girl <br><br>Bye blocked forever. <br><br>I rather be alone. Some women won’t like you because u just carry that good Energy/shine within you. No matter how friendly you are wish pisses them off even more 😮 Don’t be sad just move on and be proud about it 😅<br><br>Get a “friend” who’s exactly like you. Someone who will motivate you and whom u can learn from. Be there for each other. If that’s not the case shit won’t last or make sense.

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• NI

  @ninawolf2344 · 3 years ago

  I have never had &quot;real&quot; friends which breaks my heart to the core. I truly pray for a deep and meaningful sisterhood friendship. I feel what you are saying 😭

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• MI

  @MissMimimimi · 3 years ago

  The worst is when other people say “Can’t you just make amends with them? People make mistakes.”<br><br>Nah. A mistake is when you ask someone to bring back the top they borrowed and they forget to before coming to your house.<br><br>Spreading cruel lies, sabotage and throwing shade is intentional.<br><br>Can’t be friends with someone who’s intentionally mean. Not at this big age. May God remove the jealous, callous and wicked from our lives and make way for kind-hearted people❤

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• LU

  @luhenmel · 3 years ago

  I recently experienced a friendship heart break. Honestly soul shattering. She was my best friend since we we&apos;re kids. Our moms we&apos;re literally pregnant at the same time with us. I was basically going through a hard time in my relationship at the time and I confided in her. I&apos;d basically cry to her. And when me and the guy broke up. I was so heart broken and sad. She knew this. And still went behind my back and got with him. And they&apos;re basically in a relationship now. At first I was in denial. I wanted it to not be true so I was still friends with her. Hoping she would come to her senses. And we did eventually have the conversation. She chose him over me. And I was so sad. This made me think about the friendship. And they we&apos;re so many red flags about her but she&apos;s all I knew since I was a kid. But I understand now that not everyone is meant to be in my life forever. And she run her course and I needed to let go. The constant betrayal. I had to cut her off.

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• NA

  @NattyByNature- · 3 years ago

  She could be a supermodel. Her facial structure, skin tone and height. Lawd have mercy, my heart 😍

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