Why ‘Nice Guys’ Don’t Create Chemistry — The Truth About Leadership and Attraction
58K views · Nov 6, 2025 · People & Blogs
Comments · 529
@Newgrist · 10 months ago
If you're a nice guy, own it. If the woman doesn't find it attractive and shuns you, it is better to be yourself by yourself than to be someone you're not. Tell the woman to walk!
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@markbeeman6894 · 10 months ago
When a woman, asks your opinion give your opinion immediately and stick to it.
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@Nichen · 10 months ago
I am tired of mind games. I am not 14 years old any longer. I am walking away.
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@ChocoLocoJames · 4 months ago
I'm a nice guy. Take it or leave it.
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@Aceblack21. · 10 months ago
Word of advice boys, tell them to stfu from time to time and let them know when they’re being annoying. Most importantly don’t let them get in your way of your purpose.
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@KrysOfFate · 4 months ago
Its not about being nice. Its about evoking attraction.
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@SteelyDavey · 10 months ago
I'm nice and easy going, it's not that i'm a doormat, I just have a very chilled mindset which has come with age and I don't have much of an ego. If i'm not not bothered by something she does then that's just the way it is and if she want's to leave because i am too nice then good riddance, that's me and i'm not changing or acting.
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@keppelc · 2 days ago
I’m a gentle and caring man who often gets friend zoned by women. I feel like you have nailed it with this video, and it helps clarify what I need to bring more of into connecting with and dating women. Thank you Kimberly 🙏❤️
@fergoka · 10 months ago
At this point, I don't give a F. But I still appreciate Kimberly's efforts.
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@timmuhlbauer5657 · 10 months ago
The problem also is that most women don’t even give you the chance to be in your masculine energy. There’s always other people involved nowadays and they wanna scout their options first. I’ve had it multiple times where women would come back to me a few weeks/ months later because at first they questioned my masculinity. I’m naturally a very laid back guy and also more introverted (I do always stand my ground tho and do exactly what I want) but most women mistake this by being soft. These women have had their chance and I’ll never be a second option but it’s frustrating sometimes
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@philipkollberg · 10 months ago
Im myself. <br>Im humble but no pushover.<br>The right woman for me hasnt found me yet and thats fine because I enjoy my own company too.
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@VladislavBabbitt · 10 months ago
A lot of people just settle for a partner out of fear of being alone.
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