You Don't Deserve to Be Happy, Loved (Bad Object)
52K views · Dec 26, 2022 · People & Blogs
Comments · 74
@violets7775 · 3 years ago
I inadvertently silenced my harsh inner critic by changing my name! I detached from the name my parents gave me and the inner critic shrivelled up and slithered away.
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@KittyKat-_-ms · 3 years ago
Thank you Professor, for considering the baby seals -
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@VonNocturne · 3 years ago
Your video is very validating, and I struggle with this. Thank you for explaining the bad object.
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@youtub7495 · 3 years ago
I love how you give proper credit to your peers
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@riverriverriver-b9p · 3 years ago
Sam please do a video on how to remove or deal with sadistic introject xx
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@GLeon-ov9yu · 3 years ago
Oh my gosh you just described my 53 years of life!
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@runwiththewind3281 · 3 years ago
Professor Vaknin, thank you.
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@touchoftism77 · 3 years ago
Your voice and videos bring me comfort even though the truths are hard to hear. I know I’m getting straightforward truth when you speak. No games. <br>Thank you for your work.
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@Jay-kk3dv · 2 years ago (edited)
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTGaesM987o&t=371">6:11</a> listen to this a thousand times
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@chiliart8056 · 3 years ago
Oh today I was bad scapegot object to my mother and her brother 😆
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@MRSH100 · 3 years ago
Ahh...Highlander - such a great yet saddening movie.<br>Some can see an analogy in it:<br>Immortality - the narcissist's dream - yet how would he be able to withstand it if he's unable to even live his short, mortal life fully? <br>He has no one to share it with - no equals - he's all alone in this empty desert of his cursed mind he inhabits - truly a lonely and sad creature - almost like Connor McLeod - a god among humans.<br>(Sorry for too many hyphens)<br>Merry Christmas to everyone and to you Professor.
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@kevinkinney5445 · 3 years ago (edited)
Theres a verse in a song by Skid Row (Wasted Time)<br>"Can you feel me inside your heart as its bleeding,<br>Why can't you believe you can't be loved"<br>"You scream in agony<br>And the horse stampedes and rages in the name of desperation"<br>....spot on?
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