How to Spot the Three Es of Narcissism. Jill Wise (The Enlightened Target)
307K views · Mar 13, 2026 · Education
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@BradCarr_ · 6 months ago · pinned
Jill Wise discusses how to identify narcissists, manage them in families, and recover from relationships with extremely manipulative people. Time stamps below.<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU">00:00</a> Understanding Narcissistic Abuse: A Survivor's Perspective<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=196">03:16</a> The Unique Language of Survivors<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=329">05:29</a> Identifying Malignant Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=481">08:01</a> The Three E's of Narcissistic Behavior<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=729">12:09</a> Trusting Your Intuition<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=1033">17:13</a> Recognizing Exploitation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=1295">21:35</a> Sexual Relationships with Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=1500">25:00</a> Withholding as a Tactic<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=1724">28:44</a> Twinning: Becoming Like the Target<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=1782">29:42</a> Cheating and Narcissistic Supply<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2040">34:00</a> Parental Alienation and Its Impact<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2460">41:00</a> Do Narcissists Love Anyone?<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2543">42:23</a> The Aging Process of Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2650">44:10</a> Understanding Narcissistic Injury<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2775">46:15</a> The Impact of Aging on Narcissistic Delusions<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=2972">49:32</a> Female Narcissists: Distinctions and Dynamics<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=3130">52:10</a> Manipulation Tactics of Female Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=3590">59:50</a> How to Educate Yourself About Manipulation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=3804">01:03:24</a> When the Silent Treatment Is Manipulation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=4088">01:08:08</a> Learning About Types of Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=4243">01:10:43</a> Find Jill Wise Online<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=4265">01:11:05</a> How to Recover from Cognitive Dissonance<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=4509">01:15:09</a> Recovery Comes In Two Layers<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&t=4702">01:18:22</a> Supporting Yourself in Recovery
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@GayeM-r2x · 6 months ago
I do think its hard for most people to believe that anyone can be so deceitful, manipulative and inherently evil, but still present themselves as being charming, kind and successful. Its heartbreaking when the abused person is not believed.
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@cayotelives · 6 months ago (edited)
People won't understand because It's death by a thousand cuts. Those cuts are below the radar most times.
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@constancedenchy9801 · 6 months ago
Three "E's"<br>- Emphathy is not genuine <br>- Exploites others<br>- Entitled to what they want
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@lananaspana · 5 months ago
"You can't have it both ways; you can't be an abuser and also be a good person." Jill Wise
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@annalisasmith7604 · 5 months ago
This woman knows exactly what she is talking about. Everything she said was spot on. 🙌🏼
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@crcexit · 6 months ago
Please trust your intuition! I’m leaving a 38 year marriage, and i wouldnt have wasted those years if i had listened.
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@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh · 6 months ago
They use YOU against YOU
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@constancedenchy9801 · 6 months ago
Being married to a Narcissist is like being held as a hostage that they torture. They smear you to everyone and insist you're crazy
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@cathyduggar6545 · 6 months ago
Silent treatment, they punish u with silence for days to weeks. They punish u for calling them out on anything, calling them out is also called causing narcissistic injury.
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@lwontherez7927 · 6 months ago
So true! If their mouth is moving, they’re lying!<br><br>Very manipulative in conversations!
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@erikkasepiphany85 · 6 months ago
If you get anywhere close to the truth. I promise you that they will explode in a fit of rage, the closer you are to the truth, the more aggressive they get, be careful.
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