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How to Spot the Three Es of Narcissism. Jill Wise (The Enlightened Target)

307K views · Mar 13, 2026 · Education

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  • @BradCarr_ · 6 months ago · pinned

    Jill Wise discusses how to identify narcissists, manage them in families, and recover from relationships with extremely manipulative people. Time stamps below.<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU">00:00</a> Understanding Narcissistic Abuse: A Survivor&apos;s Perspective<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=196">03:16</a> The Unique Language of Survivors<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=329">05:29</a> Identifying Malignant Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=481">08:01</a> The Three E&apos;s of Narcissistic Behavior<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=729">12:09</a> Trusting Your Intuition<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=1033">17:13</a> Recognizing Exploitation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=1295">21:35</a> Sexual Relationships with Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=1500">25:00</a> Withholding as a Tactic<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=1724">28:44</a> Twinning: Becoming Like the Target<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=1782">29:42</a> Cheating and Narcissistic Supply<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2040">34:00</a> Parental Alienation and Its Impact<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2460">41:00</a> Do Narcissists Love Anyone?<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2543">42:23</a> The Aging Process of Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2650">44:10</a> Understanding Narcissistic Injury<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2775">46:15</a> The Impact of Aging on Narcissistic Delusions<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=2972">49:32</a> Female Narcissists: Distinctions and Dynamics<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=3130">52:10</a> Manipulation Tactics of Female Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=3590">59:50</a> How to Educate Yourself About Manipulation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=3804">01:03:24</a> When the Silent Treatment Is Manipulation<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=4088">01:08:08</a> Learning About Types of Narcissists<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=4243">01:10:43</a> Find Jill Wise Online<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=4265">01:11:05</a> How to Recover from Cognitive Dissonance<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=4509">01:15:09</a> Recovery Comes In Two Layers<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAxipeKcQlU&amp;t=4702">01:18:22</a> Supporting Yourself in Recovery

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  • @GayeM-r2x · 6 months ago

    I do think its hard for most people to believe that anyone can be so deceitful, manipulative and inherently evil, &nbsp;but still present themselves as being charming, kind and successful. Its &nbsp;heartbreaking when the abused person is not believed.

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  • @cayotelives · 6 months ago (edited)

    People won&apos;t understand because It&apos;s death by a thousand cuts. Those cuts are below the radar most times.

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  • @constancedenchy9801 · 6 months ago

    Three &quot;E&apos;s&quot;<br>- Emphathy is not genuine <br>- Exploites others<br>- Entitled to what they want

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  • @lananaspana · 5 months ago

    &quot;You can&apos;t have it both ways; you can&apos;t be an abuser and also be a good person.&quot; Jill Wise

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  • @annalisasmith7604 · 5 months ago

    This woman knows exactly what she is talking about. Everything she said was spot on. 🙌🏼

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  • @crcexit · 6 months ago

    Please trust your intuition! I’m leaving a 38 year marriage, and i wouldnt have wasted those years if i had listened.

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  • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh · 6 months ago

    They use YOU against YOU

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  • @constancedenchy9801 · 6 months ago

    Being married to a Narcissist is like being held as a hostage that they torture. They smear you to everyone and insist you&apos;re crazy

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  • @cathyduggar6545 · 6 months ago

    Silent treatment, they punish u with silence for days to weeks. They punish u for calling them out on anything, calling them out is also called causing narcissistic injury.

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  • @lwontherez7927 · 6 months ago

    So true! If their mouth is moving, they’re lying!<br><br>Very manipulative in conversations!

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  • @erikkasepiphany85 · 6 months ago

    If you get anywhere close to the truth. I promise you that they will explode in a fit of rage, the closer you are to the truth, the more aggressive they get, be careful.

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