He Wants To Come Back, But Not Really as a Husband

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• MS

  @ms_tasiweyi · 4 months ago

  This is my situation...I refused for him to come back for the sake of the children and a combined income. His proposal was that at least the children can experience us in the same home and our finances will not be split between 2 homes, then we can then figure out what we want to do with the marriage. I refused to accept scraps.

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• MI

  @Missnj356 · 2 months ago

  This video helped me so much on how to respond.

• ME

  @MercyGodsgirl · 4 months ago (edited)

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N17_BUSdOGw&amp;t=525">8:45</a> Strength and dignity says <br>I love you <br>I want our marriage <br>I believe in us<br>But I will not participate in disfunction.

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• AG

  @agnesslovehealz · 2 months ago

  Amen 🎉 to boundaries Bless your heart thank you for doing Gods work

• VE

  @vesmamileika-skrinda5324 · 3 months ago

  Wow... I watced this several times, for to &quot;eat&quot; it completely. Thank You very much for this video. It is just our situation and I struggled a lot with the issues of kids. And You get me very clear answer and flush away my doubts that I am doing right. <br>Just my husband is telling I have no rights to separated kids and he can take them to his mistress freely to spend time with her together and he will go to cort. Actually almost every time he meet kids, he want to take them to her... And he do not even listen to my cleary NO...

• TI

  @tiggywinkle7522 · 2 months ago

  I want boundaries and felt/feel guilty every time I try to. &nbsp; Enough! &nbsp; Living in bondage to fear... <br>&quot;Absorbing the consequences for husband&apos;s sin is not what a wife is called to&quot;. &nbsp; He does enjoy getting me into an argument.

• NA

  @nataliasroufe5305 · 4 months ago

  I just found your channel. I really appreciate your content and transparency. Never commented on a video, ever. I am genuinely on the fence about what to do with my situation. My partner of 12 years and I have a seven year old and are not married. It is a very long story but I am torn as to stay or go. I grew up Christian and strayed until last year, when the Lord revealed Himself to me in a big way. I have always wanted a commitment from my partner but he has refused to get married. He says that marriage has just become something people will get out of whenever they have a chance, that it is not treated as a covenant anymore. I know my identity in the Lord and I also know that I can&apos;t force my partner to understand I am not that way. I don&apos;t want my child growing up thinking that someone should just use her instead of making that eternal covenant before God. I have been seeking the Lord daily, almost hourly and I still just don&apos;t know what to do.

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• AN

  @AnnHope53 · 6 months ago

  Oooomhp! <br>Thanks so much for this!<br>This has clarified some things for me.

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• ME

  @meelliemoe · 4 months ago

  When I set the boundaries it became a war stance for him. He did not like it. But I knew that it was important because the children are no longer babies. They’re growing up. They need the proper structure and example.

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• TH

  @thebrilauren · 4 months ago

  I don’t want to fight anymore. <br><br>Stayed after the infidelity only for things to further escalate into separation. There is no accountability therefore,no repair. And, I’m still being torn down and thrown scraps 🙂.

• JE

  @JEANENESCHOLTZ · 6 months ago

  This is what happened in my home for 18months, and then he moved out and served me

• SA

  @sahleebacoto4430 · 4 months ago

  I notice that she doesn&apos;t say what really needs to be done. It&apos;s like the podcast is not finished. I wish she could discuss it until it gets ultimately helpful to the listener. Thanks and God bless.

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