5 Ways to Flirt When You’re Afraid They Won’t Reciprocate

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  @Bamgeutcutiepie · 1 year ago

  im such a good flirter!!!    - when I am not into you. lol.  as soon as I have feelings I become mr bean.

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• FA

  @Fatalsunday · 1 year ago (edited)

  My problem is I’m really good at flirting until I realize that I like someone and it hijacks my nervous system 😂 any advice on that? It’s like when you’re giving a presentation: you know you studied and have the ability, but as soon as nerves or emotions get involved all that goes out the window

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• SI

  @simarsingh2983 · 1 year ago

  1) Do 5% more than you usually do<br> Interacting and engaging with new people 5% more than you usually do. <br>2) Switch to the language of tension. Create and reduce space between strangers.<br>3) Create a shared world. Aka inside jokes. Have an abundant mindset in conversation. <br>4) Practice changing gears. Change the pace. Slowing things down. Be more playful. Mix it up. <br>5) Notice something interesting about the other person. And move past it.

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• RU

  @rumililla · 4 months ago

  To this day, I can&apos;t consciously flirt. But when I click with someone, it flows so naturally. I think that the best flirtatious moments happen when both of you feel safe enough to express your playfulness. It&apos;s pure magic.

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• LI

  @liam-s6q9r · 3 weeks ago

  I’ve heard a little about a guy named Harry Mordert. He claims that, using his systems and techniques, he managed to take as many as five girls home from a club in a single night. However, he also says that his techniques come with quite a few negative consequences. For example, he once had three guys chase him down because, apparently, he had accidentally picked up their girlfriends. That is absolutely insane to me.

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• NI

  @Nina8879z · 9 months ago (edited)

  My experience with most men in my life… they had either never learned how to flirt and kept everything very low key and I had to step up to be the flirting teacher to them so they could eventually win me over!! On the other hand are the ones who know how to flirt and they do it with everyone including the guys! So it becomes very difficult to tell who they really like. There is rarely a balanced kind🤔

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• LI

  @liz_ette_1 · 5 months ago (edited)

  I feel like a lot of flirting just comes down to being playful. After watching this video I realized I’m quite good at flirting and do it naturally with a lot of people, even friends (not just romantically). I just didn’t see it as flirting — I saw it as being playful (appropriately, depending on the relationship). But this video was a helpful reminder that it’s possible to be too subtle with the people we are actually trying to flirt with. And the tension thing is so effective.

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• DO

  @doodoopeepee788 · 9 months ago

  im a natural flirt, i used to pretend that im beautiful. but then i started to feel beautiful as i got healthier physically, and i smile and giggle a lot. with both men and women.

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• BR

  @BrilliantSeastar · 1 year ago

  I can’t tell if someone is married or with someone. No one wears a ring anymore!!!

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• RA

  @ratutasneem2026 · 1 year ago

  The 5% thing is something I&apos;m taking into my week

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• SY

  @syberyah · 1 year ago (edited)

  If you squint, this guy looks like Daniel Radcliffe<br><br>Edit: Now that I&apos;ve watched him for a whole video, I have no idea how I thought that 20 minutes ago 😂

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  @christophergarcia4545 · 1 year ago

  When you mentioned the anxiety about fast hands, affirmative mmm, etc. I was like, huh, sounds like me 😅

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