Shaunti Feldhahn: Understanding the Inner Lives of Men - Ruby Women Luncheon

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  @scottsoenksen842 · 1 year ago (edited)

  I learned more about myself from this simple lecture than from 40 years of life.

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• BU

  @bubblesparkles2796 · 10 years ago

  Thank you so much, this has changed my perspective on what men need to hear to understand. This was a life changing experience.

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• BH

  @bhojkawre3560 · 8 years ago

  This was so good. A little thank you to you too, for digging so much to understand men&apos;s thinking. <br>During that Q&amp;A session, when the second woman asked about her son not appreciating her &quot;thank you&quot; and saying he was not the best when she said so, you don&apos;t need to go so deep ( no offense). <br>Actually the son is just feeling like his mom &apos;want&apos; him to be the best, when she says that he is the best in the world. And this puts pressure on him causing him to hide his real feelings.<br>Maybe it would be better if the mom says to her son,&quot; Thank you, your the best in the world FOR ME (and always will be)&quot;

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• BA

  @BatWick007 · 5 years ago

  As a man I could relate and agree with a lot of what she’s saying. One other thing I would say about appreciating your man, is to do something as well. She’s spot on with the thank you and I’m proud of you. But doing something like bringing him a beer while he’s mowing the lawn or Taking off his coat when he gets home from work. Little things like that show him you really care and he’ll deeply appreciate it when you do that

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• BC

  @bcvc111 · 10 years ago

  Respect and Appreciation = Love

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• IO

  @ioannak.4690 · 5 years ago (edited)

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1137">18:57</a> &nbsp;What men really need<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1335">22:15</a> &nbsp;How men think<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1410">23:30</a> &nbsp;Why this bothers men <br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1524">25:24</a> &nbsp;Example of things that will hit that nerve<br> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; ‐ &quot;Why did you...&quot;<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1786">29:46</a> &nbsp;Say instead... <br> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;- &quot;I know u must have a reason, can you<br> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; help me to understand what it&apos;s?&quot;<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1906">31:46</a> &nbsp;Shaunti&apos;s Advice<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2088">34:48</a> &nbsp;&quot;I&apos;m so prood of you&quot;<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2107">35:07</a> &nbsp;&quot;Thank you&quot; - Appreciating the things he does (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2160">36:00</a>)<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2275">37:55</a> &nbsp;Appreciation is really important for men<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2301">38:21</a> &nbsp;What appreciaion does to a man - example<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2392">39:52</a> &nbsp;&quot;Do i measure up?&quot; - question<br><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2437">40:37</a> &nbsp;One thing that guys want to tell their<br> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; girlfriends, but they can&apos;t explain - survey<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2529">42:09</a> &nbsp;A man is built by the suppor of his woman<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=2601">43:21</a> &nbsp;Q &amp; A&apos;s

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• DA

  @dayondastribling1396 · 4 years ago

  I&apos;ve shared &nbsp;this with women friends who have men, big and little they wonder how to deal with. They all expressed gratitude, as in, &quot; FINALLY!!&quot;

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• SI

  @silentcal275 · 3 years ago

  I&apos;m a grown man and this lady made me cry 😢 <br>Ladies please watch this video 5-10 times take notes for the sake of your man.

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• JO

  @JoeGibbs-y6g · 9 years ago

  Shaunti is absolutely spot on with all of this. How it would make my entire year if my wife one single time followed any of her advice.

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• DA

  @danielbutchers998 · 6 years ago

  For guys it’s not so much about looking good it’s about looking competent/capable etc

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• GR

  @Grayback1973 · 1 year ago

  Really good stuff here, thank you for posting this.

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  @clydebk · 8 years ago

  At <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0cFE0pg2_I&amp;t=1800">30:00</a>, &nbsp;she talks about the milk. &nbsp;To me, that shows how men are deeper thinkers than we are given credit for.

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