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Alain de Botton on Pessimism

1.6M views · Feb 4, 2013 · Education

Comments · 1.3K

  • @michellanger1 · 4 years ago (edited)

    God, Alain is just the best sort of weirdo there is. Who in their right mind would not just blast Sad Song to an audience, but go through the trouble of printing out the lyrics so that the entire congregation can join in? The absolute madman, I love it

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  • @Moribus_Artibus · 11 years ago

    &quot;To live is to suffer, to survive is to find something worth suffering for&quot;<br>-Nietzsche

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  • @elielsolis · 5 years ago

    This is like a cure for depression “embrace your sadness, enjoy it” cause that’s the reality of life.

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  • @mellowfellow6816 · 10 years ago

    Such a refreshing antidote to the disappointing cult of optimism.

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  • @Carmen-mp3je · 4 years ago

    This man is a genius... I’ve watched almost all of his videos, I’m a fan of his school of life, I’ve read a couple of his books and he has helped me a lot; since I started to listen to him I feel more mature and emotionally strong

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  • @pippipster6767 · 6 years ago

    Pessimism is realism.<br>Optimism is only three glasses of wine away.

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  • @Wanderer-l9h · 10 years ago

    Man.. He&apos;s really one of the good ones isn&apos;t he.

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  • @akaSheilaalien · 8 years ago

    &quot;We must not react with injured surprise to bad things, these bad things are written into the contract of Life.&quot; this dude

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  • @Chrisdvc26 · 10 years ago

    This is the most comforting thing I&apos;ve ever heard

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  • @JoeyJoeJoe1970 · 5 years ago

    This man&apos;s unselfconscious singing Elton John at an podium in an assembly hall is a beautiful, beautiful thing.

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  • @TomWardComedian · 11 years ago

    I adore this man

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  • @maff3 · 10 years ago

    I have always lived my life as a pessimist, I have also found myself living a life of surprise and gratitude :)

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