How Abusers Get Away With Everything While You Clean Up the Damage

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• T.

  @t.h.8475 · 2 months ago

  A good father doesn't abuse mom.

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• RA

  @Ratgirl2 · 2 months ago

  They play victim like no other.😵‍💫😵‍💫

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• SU

  @susieg2620 · 2 months ago

  I left finally, July 1, 2026.

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• CA

  @casperinsight3524 · 2 months ago

  They watch you drowning and don't care 🎯

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• HM

  @hmmmmmm20x · 2 months ago (edited)

  You stop and his credit nosedives with compounding late charges. There goes your savings.

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• CA

  @casperinsight3524 · 2 months ago (edited)

  When you're running around putting out the fires thatt he keeps starting 🔥👀

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• SU

  @suzismith9681 · 2 months ago (edited)

  I just didn&apos;t know what was going on. &nbsp;I knew it wasn&apos;t right, but had nothing or no one to gage it against. <br>Now I do thanks to you and another. <br>I left 6 days ago, a 53 year marriage, best decision I ever made. Now I&apos;m building the life I wanted all along . Hallelujah!<br>Its all about keeping the secret. <br>Open Pandoras box and let it out....

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• CA

  @casperinsight3524 · 2 months ago

  They benefit from you but don&apos;t help you when you need it

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• LI

  @Lin-g4d4p · 2 months ago

  GIANT, and COPIOUS &nbsp;amounts of truth in this video. Married to my husband for 37hrs! Still learning how to heal from all the s**t! Cancer killed him. I&apos;m finally free, but am still trying to fade the nasty stains left everywhere...

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• RI

  @RisingPhoenixHQ · 2 months ago

  It&apos;s depressing how many relationships I&apos;ve been in that follows everything you&apos;re describing. I&apos;ve been covering for everyone since I was old enough to adapt for survival.

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• SO

  @Soraisgay · 2 months ago

  I finally started to drop everything I was covering for him on. It totally changed how I saw him. I see what he does to manipulate for power/control now. Every “nice deed” is out of image control and pushing away guilt. He wants so badly to be seen as a good person, so no one will believe it when you tell them he is a manipulative cold neglectful self centred liar and serial cheater. All of it is manipulation. Now that I fully stopped caring about my outward image and focused on my inner peace and the wellbeing of my child everyone else can go 🎉 themselves. Stay strong you will get there if you haven’t yet.

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• PA

  @padme2026 · 2 months ago

  This is so true. After 31 years of cleaning up his messes, I left and filed for divorce. He&apos;s in utter panic mode. I have went no contact, but he and his sister refuse to stop harassing me. Once the divorce is final, I&apos;m moving.

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