Spiritual Self-defense and Healing in Narcissistic Abuse

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• EL

  @ellienick5613 · 3 years ago

  This spoke to me on so many levels . In fact I’ve been wanting to talk about this myself . It’s only spirituality that’s stopped me from taking my own life

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• JU

  @julieb887 · 3 years ago

  30 years of abuse brought me here. I am grateful

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• VE

  @VeiLifter · 3 years ago

  I love how you are not religious, then you talk about spiritual self-defense... and I love your explanation on how the Bible works.

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• CO

  @conchitadiane · 3 years ago

  “You are the fixer, you are the healer, you are the savior…there is no rescue…because you are on your own you need no one to change, heal and recover” (not quite verbatim)…touched every fiber of my being, thank you

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• AN

  @AnnaMoser-n6e · 3 years ago

  I have such a ridiculously huge amount of respect for you, Professor.  Thanks so much for all you do.

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• DR

  @drnirjasheth · 3 years ago (edited)

  I regularly started practicing yoga and mindfulness. One day suddenly my mindset changed and i was free of my trauma bond with my narc husband for 40 years. It was like a miracle. i suddenly felt so comfortable and relaxed in my soul and decided to leave him.

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• SH

  @Shanti1777 · 3 years ago (edited)

  This was wonderful, I will listening again. Very empowering and also made me crying. After trauma, Found finally peace in the spirit, letting go, acceptance and self love.

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• LA

  @LavaWaffle1 · 3 years ago

  I've started this process. You've confirmed many things that I've noticed. I'm still trying to accept that he will never change. Focusing on myself instead of obsessing over him is difficult, but every day is easier. Thanks again Prof.

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• SA

  @salmanader5115 · 3 years ago

  I am so happy you&apos;re doing more videos on healing<br>I watched so many videos on your channel that I am expert on narcissism and watched all the videos from your new playlist about healing, so I am very interested on hearing more from you about that topic. I am sure your insights are unique. Thanks a lot for putting this in public❤

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• BR

  @bronxbeauty614 · 3 years ago

  Thank you for this. Ive watch n gotten so much from many of your videos, but this one has such an emotionally charged essence to it - like your soul is speaking, not your intellect.<br>It so challenges what many have been conditioned to believe OR not believe, yet also used against you when you do embrace the belief n embody its wisdom. Its beautiful for you to see outside of your beliefs, to still recognize n express the value and importance that a spiritual presence/higher being does exist in and around us. And if we allow ourselves to acknowledge that as a contributing factor (NOT the only factor), we may begin to take seriously the control we have over ourselves n our choices, n revaluate the things/people/ideas that we cannot control. Changes within you change the world around you- for good n bad. Change wisely.<br>This has allowed me to find and maintain peace and comprosure in unsettling situations. Its not always immediate or readily accessible, but when I allow myself to be still to think and really really feel, there is a spirit that steps in to guide my mind back to a sense of peace and understanding, so i can adjust myself accordingly as to not destroy myself or others.<br> This seems to me, the idea of &quot;letting go&quot;.

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• TA

  @tanya2700 · 3 years ago

  Incredible video. &nbsp;You really speak to the core of our being. &nbsp;Your offerings of healing this world is truly commendable. &nbsp;I wish everyone would see this. &nbsp;This video is a compassionate hug.

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• CH

  @Christophfarrell · 2 years ago

  Exactly what happens on psychedelics &amp; other drugs

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