Betrayal Trauma Symptoms: The Hidden Scars of Infidelity & Sex Addiction
25K views · Aug 10, 2026 · Education
Comments · 83
@ncnz444 · 1 month ago
I've been sitting in this horrible le mindset for 4 years now. It really derailed my entire life. I was never this person and ge changed at around year 25. It pisses me off im in this place now.
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@briechilli4496 · 1 month ago
There should be a law against it. Seriously !
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@Paulasonday · 1 month ago
3 years...stayed with husband...restoring...but I still hurt because the affair partner haunts me...I see her face in my mind every day...and I replay the words my husband told her every day...I'm not sure I'll ever get over this!
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@TeresaLove-dp1ec · 1 month ago
I knew from the 1st few weeks of dating him at 19 years old. Now at almost 70 I seethe whole picture of how he lied, promised, gas lit, crazy me not going on, my fault. Physical, mental and emotional abuse that was done to me. I have been so sick for 7 hard years of him saying I’ve changed and still being caught, same old gas lighting, blaming. Trust me with no signs I could trust him. It just has not or does not stop in him. God help me.
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@Mystuffismine · 7 days ago
I am so glad you said that about expectations. Very true
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@lionelt7882 · 1 month ago
Don’t forget false accusations with gaslighting. The person cheating accusing the victim of cheating, while cheating themselves.
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@sandratroskowski4323 · 1 month ago
You are talking all about my situation. You are totally awesome, Kristen.
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@jeanetteeynck603 · 1 month ago (edited)
Ur guest is spot-on, she’s excellent!!😊 Additionally, my ex-husband cheated in public, in front of neighbors and friends which got back to out children. He couldn’t have cared less! Sick!!
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@margaretdunne1676 · 1 month ago
It was profound grief for me after 38 years of marriage.There is dignity in the actual death of the person otherwise it is pure hell.
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@kimwilliams6674 · 1 month ago (edited)
What is healing? What does that look like? I see the truth and I can never unsee it, unknow it, or unfeel it. 41 years of marriage, unfaithfulness and a porn addiction our entire relationship (including 3 years of dating) until recently (I don’t know how long ago it SUPPOSEDLY stopped, I’m just supposed to believe it has). In 2020 I was DX with hypothyroidism, Hashimoto’s, then breast cancer. Afib for 13 years until I had ablation/surgery a year ago. Twenty years ago this month, I went no contact with my extremely abusive narcissistic mother and she is only worse today. Saving my marriage isn’t my goal, living in truth and salvaging the rest of my life is. My goal is being MY best, alone, married, I don’t even care anymore. I just want to not be stuck in this brutal reality.
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@SheStead · 1 month ago
Thank you. You gave such needed validation and comfort in this video. Thank you for speaking the truth and helping us.
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@Paula-vr5rm · 1 month ago
Yes the lady talking first hit the nail right on the head
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