My Son Put Me in a Nursing Home Behind My Back. I Left for the Philippines with a One-Way Ticket
60K views · Jul 23, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 99
@MarleneRebuelta · 1 month ago
It takes courage to move to a foreign country! welcome to the Philippines.
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@BeSm-qq6rs · 2 weeks ago (edited)
Mostly accurate. I retired from the U.S. military 30 years ago here. People respect each other until you give them a reason not to. Elders are treated well. Those teenagers hanging out aren't troublemakers. Violent crime is rare. I, too, will be buried here.
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@Stickland-w3f · 1 month ago
Kids shoukd look after their parents not to put them away somewhere <br>How Heartless it is 😢
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@TheSryn1 · 2 weeks ago
To be honest, I'd rather be lonely than in a home- by my own children. There's no such thing as a foreigner in a place where there are people who care for you.
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@Blossumness · 3 days ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hvSJAI6trd4&t=2003">33:23</a> He had no family there but the strangers took care of him better than his own son did back. This made me cry!!! Asia especially Thailand and the Philippines save the Western retirees.
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@alanalves9491 · 2 months ago
If you rent a house, I suggest you buy roofing insulation from the hardware store. They're sold there with foam and aluminum foil backing. Get your landlord to hire or get someone to put the insulation in the ceiling. Measure the square meters you need. You'll be a lot cooler when insulation is installed. They're sold like 45 pesos per square meter. I was born and raised in Manila, Philippines. I went to Canada at 23 to work. I'm 78 now and retired. I have a pacemaker that requires a yearly cardiologist check up. I can't go back to the Philippines and retire. But I visit 3 months yearly. Good luck. You'll meet good people there that will look after you when you get sick. Doctor consultations are cheap and meds are cheap as well if you need them for maintenance health care. I love your story. I hope your son realizes his mistake. We don't put parents in a nursing home. We look after them till death. I live with my son now rent free in canada but I cook and do groceries that he pays for.
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@cedarcottonwood2988 · 2 days ago
A nursing home is a prison camp for old people, don't go there.
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@romeoETmike · 1 month ago
You know how japan take care of their elders when they are busy or limited time to take care of their parents? They build nursing homes in Australia and send there for elder care because doing these in japan cost a lot of money. Every year, they send them back to japan for a vacation. Nursing home built by Japanese is built like a vacation place with spa and tour packages. It's not a prison. It is built like a vacation place.
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@cindycampbell807 · 2 days ago
What a blessing sounds like those people treat elders with respect and love and<br>kindness
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@basiliacaubat2606 · 1 month ago
Nice story sir 🤗❤️ I ,m proud as a Pilipino … I,m a care giver from London … Thats our culture to help and kindness respect loyalty …❤️
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@pepper419 · 5 days ago
I bet you're glad that woman sat down beside you in the middle of the night to listen to you. She changed your life completely.
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@WindaTiap · 2 days ago
Filipinos just really care with a heart.
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