LEAVE THE FIRST TIME!!!!

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• HE

  @Heathersplained · 7 months ago

  As someone who went back multiple times, I can tell you, it's not going to get better. I thought I was in love with a good guy who had bad days, but he was a bad guy who faked being good to trap me. Never go back once he disrespects you. He'll get worse because he thinks you're dumb for staying.

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• CA

  @callalilly1988 · 7 months ago

  I told myself my life is not a video game that these men can reenter whenever they want. No second chances.<br>I’ve never regretted it.

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• LI

  @lizbizlady · 7 months ago

  I was with an avoidant man, &nbsp;it was exhausting trying to do the work of 2 people in a relationship. &nbsp;No thanks.

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• VI

  @violetgypsie · 7 months ago

  They will test you by pushing boundaries. If you stay, they will keep upping it. Leave. Its just a game to them.

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• EV

  @Eva-y3u8 · 7 months ago

  Great video 👍🏽 I dated someone who was conventionally unattractive, boring, no personality and character, average earner, cheap-skate, insecure, creepy. Tried to degrade, devalue and humble me. And he thought he was the sh*t. Stay the hell from such men. They will try to debilitate, destroy you and your confidence and self-esteem. STAY AWAY.

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• AZ

  @Azizi7903W · 7 months ago

  When you leave the first time not only do you set a standard for yourself, but you deny DARVO &amp; major gaslighting to be part of your life, and no TOLERABLE LEVEL OF PERMANENT UNHAPINNESS :pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate::pillow-turquoise-hot-chocolate:

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• L.

  @l.w.980 · 7 months ago

  He was loyal, honest, hard working, God fearing, and the biggest coward I&apos;ve ever met. This man raised his voice while trying to gaslight me. I said b&amp;$%, &nbsp;we ain&apos;t got no kids together, I got a bag, investments, my own place and my own vehicles..Do what you gotta do chief.😂😂😂 Then I disappeared, blocked &amp; went back to stranger status and haven&apos;t looked back since.

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• LI

  @lizbizlady · 7 months ago (edited)

  As someone who stayed long after the red flags showed, the emotional abuse, the abandonment, no effort, cheap, selfish, and so much dismissing &amp; gaslighting. I should have left years ago.

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• KH

  @khduiebsim · 7 months ago

  Men like this will absolutely demand a ride or die through all the crap and cruelty he puts you through but he won&apos;t think twice about cutting you off the moment you no lobger serve him.

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• HO

  @honeylove2379 · 7 months ago

  Not everyone deserves a &quot;chance&quot;. &nbsp;We are trained to not trust our gut, to not trust our instincts. &nbsp;But when we trust what arises from the get go, we allow only those who resonate into our lives. &nbsp;Not everyone deserves your time of day and don&apos;t feel bad for judging.

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• US

  @user-jc3pz4pp3y · 7 months ago

  I left. &nbsp;He tried coming back, I said no. &nbsp;Now he’s treating his new girlfriend like gold. &nbsp;Maybe his true colors will come out. &nbsp;Maybe not, maybe he really will change for her. &nbsp;All I know is he had me crying over him for years. Now I’m crying cuz I miss him, but it’s better than continuing to let him make a fool of me &amp; cheating.

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• IT

  @Itsmulani · 7 months ago

  Leaves fall from trees each season with ease . Be like a leaf and fall away .

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