The Dark Side of CHOOSING YOURSELF Nobody Talks About
55K views · Aug 17, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 149
@nathalieduverna6963 · 1 month ago
The pattern WILL repeat UNTIL YOU CHOOSE YOURSELF!
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@lydiamusima5257 · 1 month ago
There's no dark side about choosing yourself other than some people resenting your glow up
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@PR7-82 · 1 month ago
Choose yourself in friendship too. That woman was going on about men but toxic women's groups are also problematic 😐
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@BlueBean_4 · 1 month ago
The moment I chose myself: it was a game changer.<br><br>I am unapologetically the Main Character in My Story✨🤭
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@msve3730 · 1 month ago
Men choose themselves ALL the time. They are not in therapy because they choose themselves.
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@msve3730 · 1 month ago
Grieving who you use to be is a hurt piece. It's scary because your heading into the unknown. But what hurts more is when you look back on so much time you wasted not becoming the person you admired in other people.
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@marawashington3280 · 1 month ago
Loved this!! Choosing yourself is far from being selfish...its self-care, self-worth and most importantly loving yourself more! ❤
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@jojosbabymama · 1 month ago (edited)
a man can just up and leave at ANYTIME simply because they feel like it, do the exact same for yourself. Leave when you’re not wanted, valued or appreciated.
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@izi.z2384 · 1 month ago
That man did you a favor. He just left quietly, didn't physically hurt nobody or turn things up.
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@canthide207 · 1 month ago
I will never say," The old me died" No. I have TRANSFORMED. There's power in words. ❤
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@etaokha4164 · 1 month ago (edited)
Detach and decentre men and peace follows. Choose yourself , your money, your home, your children, your pets, your supportive groups ect. Notice that I didnt mention choosing men?? Let that sink in
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@Tanafaithrenay · 1 month ago (edited)
Yes they will always gaslight and try and make you seem like a bad person for setting boundaries and for choosing yourself. Forget them!
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