I Think I Might Be Bi. Now What? | What Nobody Tells You

Comments · 308

• IT

  @itswayneorshine · 2 months ago · pinned

  I'm 100% gay, but still feel like a "Middle Man" in a lot of ways. When I was first learning the ropes, people shunned Bi guys, because they were always thought to be "Bi now, Gay later" which I now understand is garbage. I hope to develop relationships with Bi men and fight to help them feel seen and understood in this crazy world. Thank you for creating this space!

  63

• BO

  @boydgauvin3377 · 2 months ago (edited)

  I’m 100% gay, “straight acting” (what ever that means, but people don’t clock me as gay) and I absolutely love my bi-guy friends.  Not in a sexual way, but because I hope I give them a place to ask / question things and get honest answers.

  32

• CH

  @christopher3d475 · 2 months ago

  Thanks for doing this. I'm a gay man, but I've never belong or felt like I belong to the gay community. I'm straight 'passing' and not stereotypical in any way for being gay. It's hard to find a community.

  96

• MI

  @michaelz9892 · 2 months ago (edited)

  I am a male massage therapist. I think and hope I create a space for bi men to experience touch (non-sexual) with another man. I think that gay culture forces people to "identify" with a certain label. This makes it hard for men who are fluid on the" sexual spectrum" and prefer not to call themselves anything. I sympathize with them.

  26

• RA

  @raschidmalik464 · 2 months ago

  I keep meeting men who interest me, but then they don't want to live freely and hide behind women. It's frustrating and makes me angry here in Germany.

  41

• YO

  @yogawithloren · 2 months ago

  This is brilliant. I'm a gay man building a community for gay men over 50 who are often rendered invisible in the gay world. So bravo to you for creating something where a need exists. Seems bizarre to me that "bi" guys, or middle men, don't have much support in this day and age. Same for aging gay men.

  18

• OX

  @oxmelsg10 · 2 months ago

  I identify a lot with this videos. It has been difficult for me to fit into the gay community and the straight community also.

  9

• MA

  @Mauy2024 · 2 months ago

  As a bi dude, one of the frustrating things I find about bi men in 'straight-passing' relationships is that they will never admit they benefit from 'hetero-privilege.' It's totally fine to only want to date women, but it's about being transparent and honest about it.

  67

• ST

  @stickynorth · 2 months ago

  Bi people really are the silent majority that doesn't even know it, except Gen Z. They seem to have that figured out pretty well since they grew up in a relatively open and embracing society. Kudos for helping move the conversation towards the mainstream. We need as many out and proud voices out there as the rest of the rainbow..

  8

• SV

  @sverncollins5410 · 2 months ago

  Thanks for making this video, I’m a Bi masculine man. I’m a heteromantic bisexual man, I like both genders equally. It’s hard being a bisexual man

  8

• SH

  @sheriandderek · 2 months ago

  I’m an openly bisexual man!! I have been with my wife for 38years. We met in college. she’s always known of me being bisexual. My 3 kids know my family and all my friends know she gave me the strength to come out and be who I am in my early 20s. I’m so happy you created this space for bisexual men, your videos, touch on a lot of issues that I’ve had to deal with so thank you.🙏🏽❤️

  5

• HE

  @hey-d5x · 2 months ago

  Very underrated channel

  13