Middle Men
5.7K subscribers
Middle Men is a podcast and community for men who don't fit neatly into society's straight or gay boxes. Maybe you live a publicly straight life, but privately, you’re not entirely straight. Maybe your career, family, community, religion, or hobbies/interests require you to live a straight life. Maybe you’re bi or only into guys, but don’t fit neatly into the spaces designed for you. Maybe you don't have a label, and maybe you don't want one. Middle Men was built for you. No labels required. No judgment. No beliefs you must adhere to in order to be accepted. Just other guys who get it. The podcast focuses primarily on the challenges of living life in the middle, the psychology and research (and lack thereof) around it, and resources to help manage those challenges. I’m the host, Brendan O’Hara. I grew up straight, came out as gay, then landed somewhere in the middle in my 40s — and found there was almost no content or community out there speaking to guys like us. So I built it.

“It Took a Lot of Effort Not to Be Me” | Peter Marc Jacobson
Middle Men · 15K views · 10 days ago

"My Wife Knew I Was Bisexual—But I Still Hid in Plain Sight" = Seth Duffy
Middle Men · 76K views · 3 weeks ago

Why Dating Apps Don’t Always Fix Loneliness | What We’re Really Searching For
Middle Men · 3.4K views · 1 month ago

Why I never Felt Gay Enough — And What I Did About It
Middle Men · 21K views · 1 month ago

You Don't Have to Pick a Side | Sexuality Is a Spectrum
Middle Men · 6K views · 2 months ago

I Think I Might Be Bi. Now What? | What Nobody Tells You
Middle Men · 35K views · 2 months ago

I Lived Straight, Then Gay. Then I Landed in the Middle.
Middle Men · 72K views · 2 months ago