የልጅነት ቁስሎች ዛሬ በሕይወታችን እንዴት ይታያሉ? | ከትዕግሥት ወልተንጉስ ጋር | Meselal Live EP. 06 | Healing Childhood Trauma

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• ZU

  @zuyemedia · 1 month ago

  i did it❤ለልጆቼ ካደኩበት የተሻለ አስተዳደግ አሳድጋቸዋለሁ i did it😊

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• SE

  @SelamFessha-i4p · 1 month ago

  2 helpful people that Ethiopia have. From someone who overcome mental breakdown, I highly believed someone would benefit from this conversation.❤

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• HA

  @HanaDegefa-y7d · 9 days ago

  Oww Tigi, Happy to hear about your second book, can't wait :hands-yellow-heart-red:

• BR

  @brookehiververse2931 · 1 month ago (edited)

  I swear the collective of Ethiopians gathers in this comment section 😂 because I’m genuinely shocked when I hear a fellow Ethiopian talk about their childhood like it was a fairytale.<br>I honestly like… you’re one in a million, because I feel like so many of us lived through the same childhood traumas, and somehow those experiences followed us into adulthood.<br><br>But I also feel like our generation is trying to break that cycle. We’re trying to do better. We’re trying to raise our children differently, while at the same time raising the child within ourselves and unlearning everything we were taught.<br><br>And oh my God… how hard is that?<br><br>You’re raising your own child while simultaneously trying to re-parent yourself. You’re trying to understand your own childhood, heal from it, and become a better version of yourself—not just for you, but for the future of your children.<br><br>I genuinely believe our parents did what they knew how to do. They didn’t have the knowledge, resources or awareness that we have today. They were doing the best they could with what they had.<br>I only truly started to understand and forgive my own parents after having my own child. Before that, the amount of blame I carried for the way I was raised… wow. I think so many of us can relate.<br>And honestly, forgiveness has been one of the biggest parts of healing for me.<br>Not forgiveness that says what happened was okay. Forgiveness that comes from understanding what those experiences did to you, acknowledging the needs that weren’t met when you were a child, and finally accepting that you can’t change the past.<br>But you can change what happens next.<br>We can give our children the things we needed. We can break patterns. We can learn how to communicate differently, love differently, parent differently.<br>Maybe that’s the beautiful thing about our generation—we’re not just raising our children.<br>We’re healing ourselves while we do it. ❤️

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• RA

  @rahelmamo-kw9dt · 1 month ago

  በፍቅር &nbsp;ነወ የምትናገረው &nbsp;ትግስት ኑሪልን መፅሀፉን &nbsp;አንብቤዋለሁ

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• MA

  @marthayilma2349 · 1 month ago

  people plsr እንደሆንኩ በቅርብ ነው የተረዳሁት No ማለት እንኳን አለመቻሌን

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• TA

  @Tahe-l1f8v · 1 month ago

  Wow በጣም ምርጥ ሰው የጋበዝከው አመሰግናለው ጌታ እኔ ምልክ ሳይኮሎጂ በጣም ጎበዝ ናት እሳን ጋብዛት ሀና ተክለ የሱስ ተባላለች በትጋብዛት ደስ ይለኛል ቀድጋሚ wow

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• MY

  @MyLove-s2b3u · 1 month ago (edited)

  በእውነት እግዚአብሔር ይስጥልን እናመሰግናለን እኔም እቢ ማለት ትጀምር ጥርግርግ ብለው ጠፉ እሁን ጥሩ ሁኔታላይ ነኝ እግዚአብሔር ይመስገን❤ &nbsp;ለወደፊቱም ከናተ ብዙ እንደምማር ተስፋ አደርጋለሁ

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• RA

  @rahelmamo-kw9dt · 1 month ago (edited)

  እኔ እግዚአብሔር ይመስገን ትራማ የለብኝም ከምትሉት ተነስቼ ። በጣም በፍቅር እና በአላፊነት ነወ ያደግነወ። እናቴ የምር እናት ናት አባቴ ደፋር &nbsp;መልካም &nbsp;ወንድ ነወ❤❤

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• SE

  @selamselam5809 · 1 month ago

  እግዚአብሔር &nbsp;ይስጥልን ጌታነህ ቲጂዬ በአንቸቺና በሰኒ ምክር ብዙ ተማርኩ &nbsp;እግዚአብሔር ሁላችሁንም ያበርታ

• SE

  @selamwg21 · 1 month ago

  The 2 insightful people in the room 😍🫶🏽

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• ME

  @MeseretMesi-i1j · 1 month ago

  Getaye i have big respect for you ❤

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